This girl has been with her boyfriend for 10 years (ever since she was 20) Well, when i was single (before i was married) I met her boyfriend and we dated for a month (i didnt know she ever existed. She was in jail!) so anyway, I left him cause i found out he had a girlfriend who was in jail for drugs (ewe) & 7 years later, i am happily now married and she is going to this wedding i am going to. I know since she is a coke head, she will bring it up & i will feel like punching her cause shes annoying. All 4 of us will be at the same table. How can i bring light of the situation when the drity crack whore brings it up?? She has a history of flipping out over if her toast isnt toasted correctly.
2006-09-09 13:41:11 · 10 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No matter what she says, respond with:
Isn't nice how we've all grown so much emotionally and can laugh about things from the past that don't really matter?
2006-09-09 13:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way your boyfriend treats you is wrong. I suggest you break up with him because he will not stop beating you if he doesn't get counselling. Find someone who can or will understand you and accept you as you are. There are guys out there who we can call MEN ENOUGH. Getting even with the man who seduced and raped you? I suggest you talk to him and let him ask an apology to your parents/family, or at least to your boyfriend (if you don't want to break up and continue getting beaten). He will do that if he's sincere with his apology to you. Forgive him if he does. To sue him won't work. It's only going to spark more problems and you won't win because you don't have any physical evidence.
2016-03-27 04:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Helen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you say she is going to take it as a slight to her. She doesn't like the fact that he was with you because if YOU didn't dump HIM, then he would have left her for you. I think you should try to get moved to another table. Or try to piss her off really bad really early so that she will storm off before it's even time to sit down.
I've known people like that. I can't believe that they are still together, maybe you should try to bring that up.
2006-09-09 13:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by eyesinthedarkness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the wedding very, very relaxed. Hey - smoke something before you go, if you have to. Whatever you do, do not react with anger when she starts acting like a complete idiot. If you react with anger, it will just look like two white trash biatches going at it. You want HER to look like the white trash and YOU to look like the really cool one. When she starts going off on you, try to just see her as a child acting out and quietly (quietly - so she'll have to stop yelling in order to listen) say "I can see you are still upset, but so&so's wedding is not the place to discuss this." When she starts going off again, quietly say "I can see you are still upset, . . . . . " Just repeat it again and again.
She'll get madder and madder, and as a result she will keep looking more and more ridiculous as the bystanders look on. Try not to smirk or indicate, in any way, that you planned it that way.
2006-09-09 13:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the bride and explain the situation and ask her if she could first off--move us to another table. If your husband is going with you he can do alot to deflect anything from happening. Then if none of this works, excuse yourself to the ladies room and ask her if she wants to go to. Get her in the bathroom and tell her the ways is gonna be--capish?
2006-09-09 13:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms, let her make a fool of herself and you stay calm. When she brings it up either don't say anything or just say you can't change the past. Or try switching tables.
2006-09-09 13:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know, women keep score. It doesn't matter if you dated him 50 years ago, she considers you a threat. Blow her off. Be nice but dont let her antics waste your time.
2006-09-09 13:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u know this about her im sure there are more people that know it also!!! Just avoid her! Ask the host to sit you elsewhere!
2006-09-09 13:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by L E. G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really need to go to the wedding?
2006-09-09 13:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao tell her to get over it!
2006-09-09 13:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋