He is married and not sharing the same bed as his wife, do you think the wife's gonna leave him?

Question

He said he wants to make it work for the last time. Do you think it will work considering were it's at?

Answer 1

It certainly could work out. If they are both willing to deal with their problems, forgive eachother, and start fresh. They would also have a good chance if they got into some counseling together.

Answer 2

I Am Messing Around With A 54 Year Old Married Man
And I Am 20 Years Old. I Been Messing Around With Him
Since Last September 2005. He Has A Son Who Is 20 And
He Is My Friend And A Daughter Who Is 17 And His
Daughter Caught Us Having Sex Once Before But She
Did Not Say Nothing To Nobody Because She Has Autistic
And She Has A Mind Of A 6 Year Old. This Married Man
Wants To Leave His Wife And Marry Me... But I Do Not
Know If He Will Leave His Wife Of 21 Years! The Sex
Is Good And He Always Said I Love You To Me All The
Time And I Do Not Know What To Do. But I Love Him!
We Never Use Protection But He Pulls Out And
Ejaculate On My Stomach! We Have Had Sex In Werid
Places! Nobody Knows About This Relationship And He
Plans On Getting A Divorced From His Wife When His
Daughter Turns 18! He Already Asked His Wife For A
Divorce But She Say Things Will Work Out And He Thinks
Things Won't Work Out! This Relationship Between Me
And Him Started When I Went Over There And Fixed His
Computer And I Saw Porn On His Computer And Then I Ask
Him About It On-Line And He Said It Was His And We
Started Messing Around And Other Stuff!!! His Wife
Is Going To Court In September To Gain Full Rights
Over Their Daughter!!!!!

What Would You Do?

Answer 3

Listen Juanita,go with what the people said in your last question.I especially like the one who said, love is just a thing.Years from now and you are in love with someone else, you will laugh back on this and say these people were right.I've been in love several times and thought 'he was the one'.You 21?Get dressed and go out and show this married man youre not gonna wait on him to get divorced.If he loves you,you'll see him getting that money for a divorce.In the meantime,go out and have a good time.You'll feel better knowing that youre not being dragged down by someone who probably doesnt love you anyway.

Answer 4

Then leave him alone and let him try and work it out with his wife. Obviosly he stillcares if he wants to try. My friend played this game with a guy for over a year. He even went so far as to leave her and lived with my friend, that lasted 4 days, and he went back to the wife. My friend finally moved on, and is very happy and living with her new man for over a year now, and guess what, the married cheater still pops up once in awhile to see what my friend is up too, and he is still with his wife.

Answer 5

One of the arts of a married man committing adultery is that they are extremely good liars and exaggerators. Don't fall for the stories that he is going to tell regarding their relationship.

If he says that he wants to make it work. Allow him to do that without any contact from you.

Only consult with him if he has divorce papers in hand.

Also, some people actually take their marriages really seriously. She might stay in spite of any problems within the marriage. So don't put alot of stock in it "not working out".

Answer 6

Well she probably doesn't give a hoot. Especially if he is paying the bills like he is suppose to. She could care less if he sleeps in the house or not less know the same bed. She is more than likely giving it to someone else and in it for her own reason. So if they divorce he would diffently have to call the shots to leave.

Answer 7

There are two sides to every problem that couples have. It is seldom just one partners fault. Just because his wife is not sharing his bed doesn't mean that she's leaving any time soon. People are very capable of placing marital fault on their partner. Back away and find yourself someone who is already single.

Answer 8

he is telling you this, if you too are having an affair you are in the wrong
the minute you know that he is married you should told him to take a hick beside has he also tell you why he and his wife are in different bed in the first place
take care of yourself don't be the other woman
if you asking us that mean you are not secure with him an will never be

Answer 9

No.
If he wants to really make it work than how come he isn't sleeping in the same bed?
I'm pretty sure she will miss the affection and leave him.

Answer 10

try getting a bed for two and let then try it out,
but first do something that will make hem do so [no therting phone calls or letters or u will be arristed for consiprisy to commit murder ]