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but i dont know if shes interested in me and i dont want 2 talk 2 her if shes not interested in me. what should i do?

2006-09-09 13:01:39 · 4 answers · asked by rockstarjestersmoothrider 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

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I understand your WANTING a girlfriend; however, experience has taught me that when we exert so much effort LOOKING for that girlfriend, we do one of three things:
1) Start a relationship we wouldn't otherwise start as it was started for the wrong reasons,
2) Having entered into a relationship, we become closed-minded and also blind to truer possiblities and may miss out on something so WONDERFUL and special... why? because we were dating the wrong person for the wrong reasons
3) We lose focus of what's important to us and never find that right person, whether she's Ms. Right, or Ms. Right now, we become so engulfed in finding "her" we may never!

So I say, it is A-OK to want that girl now, but what you MUST realize, is that you can't look for it or force it. Please take it from me, I've done this many times and have learned by now that what is special (whether it's love, lust, or fun...) is something that JUST HAPPENS. Hold on, hold on to yourself and she will come!

Remember that... and if she's in any way SPECIAL... she'll see the good in you. Good luck!

Confidence and self-assurance is so very sexy in a guy! Don't look to eager or cocky, and you'll find, when it rains, it pours! :)

2006-09-09 13:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by anonymouswoman 1 · 0 0

If she never talks to you how do you know if you have anything in common?

2006-09-09 13:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0 0

how do you kow that you have a lot in common if she doesn't talk to you? lets say you do,,just come right out and invite her to something that you like to do, and do it together. good luck

2006-09-09 13:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by misselliet 4 · 0 0

you should be too obvious that you like her... just get to know her and be her friend and maybe you can find out if she likes you.. you cant know if you dont talk to her...
so just go for it..

2006-09-09 13:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Diane 4 · 0 0

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