Also explain your answer.
2006-09-09 13:00:47 · 19 answers · asked by gymfreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES. For me, it makes me feel inadequate... like I am not good enough for him, so he has to look at these women to be satisfied. I hate that. I feel like, if you're with me, I should be enough. If you really want some pictures to look at, then I'll pose for you.
*This was an issue for me in the past but it has long since been taken care of... it's still a sore subject though, probably always will be.
2006-09-10 04:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get insulted by it, but I really think that it's just the nature of men to collect anything and everything to do with sex. I shouldn't take it personally because that's just how men are. It makes me think a man won't be committed to me, if he's always looking at porn, but maybe it's just silly to expect a man to be that committed.
Since almost all men collect it and fantasize about it, etc., they certainly couldn't be dense enough to get jealous if we women decide to start ogling other men, collecting pictures of them, etc. - right?
2006-09-09 20:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i understand men love to look at porno. I think its just what guys do, and some women get into it as well. The down side and this has just happened to me. I have just found out that my husband has been playing porn via foxtel and it has been going onto my credit card (some men are dumb) but what hurt me was he played a video on the night we came home from our honeymoon. (ouch) I have to tell you i don't feel special or real sexy at the moment. I know i wll move on but i get a real deep pain in my gut when i see him doing the things guys do. For me i have to live with it. IS IT INSULTING - it is for me!!
2006-09-09 23:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I find it insulting for my partner to have anything to do with porn unless it is something we both agree is okay. If one partner is having to hide it and feels like they can't let their partner know then something is really wrong. Porn is for the single or for the couple to enjoy together.
2006-09-09 20:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by rascal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes but more than that, the partner has a sickness. I would dump this person in a heart beat. The problem will not go away so you need to either accept and live with it or leave!
2006-09-09 20:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your significant other could interpret it as insulting if they feel inferior or if it is used as j... off material instead of being with them. I think if it's used as a tool to help two people get in the mood it could be not insulting.
2006-09-09 20:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by rom0801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason for it, I worked with various vintage porn/pin-ups for quite a amount of time, I started to collect some. If it's for collection purposes or simply as a release when your mate is not available than its okey. But you should never ignore your mate for porn.
2006-09-09 20:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU feel insulted then it's insulting. Everyone was brought up differently therefore have varying moral traits. No one has the right to question YOUR feelings. Burn those babies!
2006-09-09 20:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the problem is... I mean these days having a srong sexual appetite is not a big deal to me. I wouldn't consider it insulting.
2006-09-09 20:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by (l)SR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as they love you i dont see the big deal. if you are not home they need to get off. and they will think there are people hotter than you in the world if you dont think there are you are full of yourself. if they are looking at a few pictures of porn stars big deal its not like they will run out and marry a porn star.
2006-09-09 20:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by pevehead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋