I recently broke up with my boyfriend, well he broke up with me but i didnt know about it, its only when he stopped calling or taking my calls that i realised it was over. Its been 5 days already and i havent spoken to him. We did argue or anything infact the last thing he said to me was that he would ring me in a few mins, i know he hasnt been in an accident to anything cause i rung his workplace and they said he was coming in to work and perfectly fine. Should i confront him or just cut my losses and let him go.
2006-09-09 12:59:56 · 29 answers · asked by Kelsey H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just let him go there's no point to waste anymore of your precious time. His behaviour is absolutely immature and childish so what should you confront him for? i personally wouldn't bother and move on with my life. If there was something in your relationship he wasn't happy about he should have confronted you first . It's not your fault. C'mon girl you deserve a lot better than that. Be selfish and happy!!
2006-09-10 04:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by sid_blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. Make no attempt to contact him and don't ask anyone for news of him or information about what might be wrong. If he does then later call you, act as if you had completely failed to notice that he hadn't called - say sorry but you've been busy. If he asks to see you again and you want to, fine, but don't be too readily available. Make it a bit more difficult for him to see you, and try to keep some distance between you for a while so that he has a chance to see how he really feels about you.
2006-09-10 03:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losses-go-cut.
2006-09-09 20:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me once but I don't know what the heck was going on. It never happened again and I married the guy and am happily married to him. I was sure it was over, just like you. You need to talk to him and see what the deal is. You have a healthy self respect because I can see you are prepared for the worse. Hope he comes to his senses and stops torturing you. Best wishes and God Bless You honey.
2006-09-09 21:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend whose boyfriend used to do that to her all the time, I can't believe she still took him back all those times, fortunately now is really over, he married someone else (it was an arranged marriage) SO try and find out what he's thinking but don't even think of taking him back, or talking to him ever again for that matter..
2006-09-09 20:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Amy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt got the decency to tell you its over and just leave you wondering then he is a loser and not worth losing sleep over.......if he has a change of heart and comes crawling back to you kick him in the b all s and tell him where to go....(not that im a violent person)
2006-09-12 12:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by purplepatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a right w***er. If he wants to plat pointless games then let him do so but not with you. You're worth more than that and deserve better. Let him go and show him you're not bothered, that will make him feel like the little **** he is.
2006-09-09 20:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by carl_marriott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did this once to an ex and it wasnt very nice at all for her and to this day i still feel bad about it,she confronted me and i told her i had two timed her but as a result of all this we ended up back together and eventually got married,it didnt end becouse of that as i never two timed her again it was just not to be.i suggest you confront him even if its to put youre own mind at ease.hope this helps,good luck.
2006-09-09 20:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ian I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go,he ain't no gentleman.
Surprised he hasn`t got a Friend to tell you or didn`t text you it was over.
What a loser,you deserve much better and if you are patient,he will find you and sweep you off your feet.
Don`t go on a rebound either,not to show him or make him jealous,nor to make yourself feel better,it will only make you feel worse.
2006-09-09 20:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to let him go. Get over him and move on. He is a lier and probably seeing someone else behind your back. That is why he hasnt been calling.
2006-09-09 20:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋