Please don't judge cuz you never know, this could happen to you to.
2006-09-09 12:58:24 · 28 answers · asked by juanita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do yourself a favor and leave him alone and move on. He's married, which means he's unavailable and will most likely not be leaving his wife for you. Don't try to break his marriage up, because that is just detestable. Move on and fall in love with a single guy who can be with you.
2006-09-09 13:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flee for your life and well being! Don't be a home-wrecking "biotch", it will otherwise come back on you when you least expect it. Even if he doesn't have the good sense to break it off, you had better do it! Put some time and distance between you and him, and leave married men alone, it is a dead end street! Yes it could happen to anyone, but right now it's happening to you, so take my advice!
2006-09-09 20:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma. What goes around comes around.
Please, leave this man alone. I found out that my husband cheated on me and my whole world fell apart. You have no idea what you're going to put this woman through. It's not fair. Go find a man who is not married. I'm not judging you, I'm just warning you. This is not going to be good. Don't hurt another woman this way. Because like you said, "this could happen to you too."
2006-09-09 20:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by vitamin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could only have happened if you spent a considerable amount of time with him. This is exactly why I advise married couples to not associate with any members of the opposite sex. Keep yourself in safe places, do not even give temptation a foothold. What do you do now? Sorry, but you close the door and never open it again. You must call it quits with him.
2006-09-09 20:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me before and now i'm left with regrets for the rest of my life, i just wished that i could turn back the time at this point.. and then there's one quote i learnt from a book that says "There's no such thing as a harmless affair, they all harm somebody, they all break more than one heart"..
2006-09-09 20:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nadia Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your act together and forget about this man. Find your own man and make each other happy. remember you might also land in this man's wife's position. Would you then give your husband off to someone else. read through these questions and answers and see how many household have broken up due to people interfering in other people's marriages.
2006-09-09 20:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has happened to me, and I dumped him after a while because it was either him running back to his wife or his other (didn't know about) fifteen year old girlfriend! And to make it worse he ended up with my sister! They will never leave their wives no matter what they say. Because their wife is their "safe and comfortable" place and the girl on the side is their "wild and secret" place
2006-09-09 20:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a no win situation. He won't leave his wife for you, they never really do. Why are you in a relationship that will go nowhere? Are you running from committment? A lot of folks look for situations where they know they re safe from committment, (sometimes, subconsciously) Do a check up on your past relationships, is there a pattern?
2006-09-09 20:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he's not likely to leave his wife and if he did, then you wouldn't really be good husband material. Trust me when I say that the feeling of being in love is a feeling that comes and goes. It's a myth that there's only one right person out there for you. The feeling of being in love is a chemical reaction and you will feel it again.
2006-09-09 20:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by rom0801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can say is just leave him alone because people like you to me your a homewreacker....Im not trying to like get you offended in such way but its just Im in a somewhat situation here but its that im not the one who is in love with a married man, its that someone is in love with my husband and my husband don't know what he wants if you dont wanna get hurt best leave him alone because you don't know if his going back to you or his wife for you know what , it's happening to me. Well I have alot to say to you but i just don't want to waste my time on telling you because what comes around goes around and girl its not going to be funny its gonna be worse than you can imaging whats heading towards your way so for my concern for his wife or if he has children just leave him alone and find someone whos not taking.
2006-09-09 20:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Hawaiianlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋