We mess around all tha time and wanna wait til tha next year to start datin.Is this stupid or wut?I talk about him all tha time.Am i crazy in luv or wut.I just dont no thats y im askin ya'll.
2006-09-09 12:41:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
umm what ever works for you
2006-09-09 12:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that real love makes you feel good about yourself. If you feel like you have to do things in order to keep his love, or if you think you have to tip-toe around him to keep from upsetting him all the time, then that isn't love. It's a fine line. Being in love with him and his love for you should make you feel like you are a good and worthy person, but your sense of self worth shouldn't be defined by his attention (i.e. if you broke up with him tomorrow, you shouldn't feel worthless). You should want to be the best you can be because love should give you the strength to be/do better, but not because you feel obligated to change just to make him happy. If that's how you feel, then you're in love. Otherwise, it's just infatuation.
2006-09-09 13:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda depends on your age, but I think it's real love when you care about the other person more than yourself. Not in an unhealthy way where you don't take care of yourself because of them. But where if it's a choice of making them happy or getting what you want, you're willing to compromise.
Messing around and being obsessed is usually lust...just wanting to be with the other person b/c of what it will do for you, and how nice you think it would be.
I think if you were really crazy in love, you wouldn't need to ask us. you also wouldn't want to wait a year to see him. when you're crazy in love, there's no hesitation about that. Second thoughts are usually your gut instinct.
2006-09-09 12:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by crystal_sea24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK If i guys aren't going out make plans don't just say " oh i got plans can we do this tomorrow" but u might have stuff to do the next day you need to work this out like now and if u wanna work this out i say u should see how he acts when he is around u and how he acts when he is around other girls do u feel special when your with you and talking to him and does he feel special too. you need to figure out some of these things and soon YOU WILL get the answer for sure!
2006-09-09 12:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by IRock Haha u Don't 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i KNOW u is definitely in luv wit him cuz if u think about him, talk about him to me u r in luv all u talk about is him and he just trippin about waitin til next year (10th grade) well i hope everything goes well cuz i know he makes the hairs on the top of ur head stand up! LOL! i know this... u be dreamin about him thinkin about how yall will be married with children and er thang! shoot! im yo sista and u tell me er thang yall just frontin and need to go out on da real cuz both of yall luv each otha but dont wanna show it!
2006-09-09 13:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tweetybaby♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are in love there are no questions, doubts or concerns about it. You will know. Maybe you are infatuated with the way he makes you feel, maybe it's a crush or just really good "mess around sessions. But you will know.
2006-09-09 12:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by MMC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU WAITING UNTIL NEXT YEAR TO START DATING? ARE YOU TOO YOUNG TO DATE NOW? IF YOU ARE THEN 9 TIMES OUT OF 10, YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE AND JUST INFATUATED...BUT THAT'S O.K. BECAUSE THEN IT'S CALLED PUPPY LOVE...(SOMETIMES THAT'S EVEN BETTER) BECAUSE IT'S NOT CONTAMINATED WITH ALL THE DRAMA THAT WE ADULTS HAVE WHEN THE "REAL LOVE" OCCURS...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-09 12:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u think that u're blindly in love wit this guy, then it's just infatuation... blind love is no love at all.. infatuation always leads u the wrong way.. dnt get so attached.. dnt let confusion break ur heart in the process...
2006-09-09 12:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by hilary_aaron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u know when ur in love when u cant stop thinking and talking about the person. And when ur around them u get butterflies in ur stomach. When ur comfortable around them and u can tell them anything. Ur heart should tell you!
2006-09-09 12:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Symptons of a person sick in love:
can not eat
can not sleep
can not think
can not concentrate
always sees his or her face
always in fantasy or daydreaming
always longing to see or be with him or her, if ur suffering from those symptons, congratulations..... ur in love
2006-09-09 12:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel funny inside when your around him? Do you feel like your on Cloud 9? If so, maybe he's the one.
2006-09-09 12:49:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋