2006-09-09 12:30:00 · 12 answers · asked by wilkinson_1979 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you need to talk to him and tell him that you want more attention,that you need to feel more appreciated.I'm sure he already knows what he has,you don't need to use tricks to assure yourself his feelings for you.Remember what goes around comes around.Don't play with his heart like that.You wouldn't want him to do that to you.Communication is the key good luck.
2006-09-09 12:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah Ha. heck, we need talk on the phone. Anyway. Start doing things he's not used to you doing. Purchace some new clothes, get hair and nails done,say your going out with the girls even if your visiting your parents.Don't let him firure out your every move, just tell him, ill be back with no explination. stop answering your cell phone, say you left it on vibrate( he'll wonder why) better yet,put it on vibrate at home hell still wonder why you did that. get friends to call you house and hang up. or go in another room and call you own house and hang up. put fake names in your cell( with your girlfriends real number) and have a few guys number at the top of the list. when he peek at your phone, he'll wonder, who's john( in his head of course, he wasn't suppose to peek in the first place)? Also, ack like your unhappy, stop washing his crap, let him cook his own food. If he ask whats for dinner, tell him you already ate while you were out. when he's at work, stop answering the house phone when and if he calls, even if you in bed watching tv doing nothing.( don't let him know your every move, like I said) . just the other day, I got someone begging sooooooooooooooo bad, I had to laugh about it, but, I got what I was looking for. hope that helps. by the way, planning a road trip with the girls might be a good thing to do. However, if he is really a good guy, then be nice. If seems as if you need some TLc by him. Believe me' been there done that. take care.
2006-09-09 13:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by chynadoll38 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Intentionally making ur spouse jealous just breeds insecurity. Do you really want ur mate to think he can't trust you? Try making him appreciate you and then maybe u might see progress. You could always leave but I don't recommend it unless you r ready for the consequences. Would you like to entertain the idea of your husband cheating? Does it make a difference to you even if it is only hypothetical? It is okay to be jealousy guard something you cherish but never to allow that jealousy to make u or him a prisoner. If u keep forcing him to prove himself he will simply give up.
2006-09-09 12:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by AVA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Making him jealous will get you know where and nothing except misery and heartache. Sit down and talk to him and tell him without yelling what the situation and or problem is. You are both grown and playing games are for children. You dont want him to think bad about you or misinterpret anything you do or have planed to do with trying to make him jealous. If you cant talk to him try a marriage counseler.
Good luck
2006-09-09 12:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that that is very much the wrong approach. Just be good to him, and be thankful for what you have. Unless he is a complete idiot, he will appreciate you, even if he is not showing much in the way of outward signs.
2006-09-09 12:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and open that can of worms if you dare !
men are not like women , play that game , try to make him jealous , im sure hell let you know all about hes night out with the guys , and how close he came to messing around .
this sounds nuts to me , if you feel like he dosent pay you any attention ,, then talk to him , or do something to make him notice you ,, you are playing with fire with this little head game youve just mentioned .
2006-09-09 12:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a very childish way of handling a problem... You keep that crap up and your marriage wont last. Grow Up!
2006-09-09 12:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, how would you want him to make you jealous? Do you really want him to go to such an extent to make a point? PLEASE, you need to grow up and either talk with your husband or stop making it sooooo good for him...whatever that means
2006-09-09 12:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to make him jealous? Just tell him how much you love him, and make it a little more affectionate, hell come around....or should:)
2006-09-09 12:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do that!!! treat others how u would like to be treated! if your feelings are so hurt that you feel u need revenge, sit him down and tell him how upset he made you. but DONT get revenge.
2006-09-09 12:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by meg *__* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋