iv been cheating on my gf i dont mean to my gf showed me to her mate so after a day or 2 i asked her out but then i ask my other gf mates out a few days later and then another of my gf mates a few days later thats 3 girls but i do like my hg and she has found out. i told her that i did cheat but i just wanted to get to know her mates better she said really by sleeping and haveing sex with them so i didnt know what to say now i lost all 3 but one of her mates still contacts me so how can i tell her i didnt mean to. im still dateing one of her other mates.
2006-09-09 12:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't need a girlfriend, you need an English course.
2006-09-09 12:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't mean to? sure you did. You entertained the thought of going out with your gf's "mates" (you from Australia?). Thought preceeds the action. If you can't be loyal to a steady gf, how do you expect to loyal to a spouse? Just remember, all those girls you sleep with is someone's daughter. Put yourself in the role as a father of a girl, how would you feel to know a boy is having pre-marital sex with your daughter?
2006-09-09 19:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by swomedicineman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't deserve an answer -- you deserve some spanking and "bad luck" too. we are jealous on what you are up to with 3 girl friends in the bag and you are still complaining. Shame on you -- go and take a hot shower, calm down and pick one of the them as your "sex-mate" -- and leave all the others alone. Enough is enough is enough.
Ps. as a gentle man's gesture send all three of them roses -- and write on the card....forgive me. Hope it helps.
2006-09-09 19:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that other 'mate' doesnt have any respect for her friends, so she isnt worht it in the first place but neither are you so that kinda puts both of you in the same boat. she probably just a s*ut and is only using u, she either just wants sex and or she has a grudge on one of her friends and is fighting back in a sleazy way or shes just a *****...you two will probably get along fine....but later on down the track either u or her are going to cheat again ...yay wat a loving relationship. any relationship that started out with cheating in the first place is going to end that way!
2006-09-09 19:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all, why do you keep calling your gf's friends"mates", and second of all, maybe you don't need to go out with every girl you want to get to know... or thik is hot or cute. Maybe you could of just asked your gf and her friend to go to a movie with you, or some thing like that.
And if you grow to think you like someone.... you could be wrong.
I once thought this one 7th grader that went to a different school district than me was totally gourges...... but then I started to get to know him a little more....... and he like turned out to be a total butt!
xoxo Alexis E
PS: and yes i am a girl..... you answered one of my questions earlier!
2006-09-09 19:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly didn't mean to, then you would not have slept with any of them. You don't care. You never did. How can you say you want to tell her that you didn't mean to, when you're still dating one of her friends that you cheated on her with? Hah, leave the girl be and get on with your life. You'll get yours one day too.
2006-09-09 20:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL GENIUS...I THINK THAT YOU NEED TO LEAVE ALL OF THE "MATES" ALONE BECAUSE YOU'VE GONE SHIPWRECK! FIRST OF ALL YOU'RE A WHORE, AND DON'T DESERVE THE TIME OF DAY THAT THESE DUMB BROADS ARE GIVING YOU.
AND LASTLY, BUT CERTAINLY NOT LEAST...I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD GO DRINK DONKEY VOMIT AND MAYBE YOU'LL UNDERSTAND WHAT IT FEELS AND TASTES LIKE TO BE CHEATED ON!
2006-09-09 19:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need a girlfriend,when you love someone you dont cheat on them.Get out of the relationship asap.
2006-09-09 19:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
okkkkkk why? if u really love ur gf then u will devote all ur love to her. i wouldnt like it. tell her you are really sorry and ask if she will give u another chance. if she says yes..dont blow it. if she says no, when u get another gf, dont do that! pick one girl, and stick
2006-09-09 19:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by maconheira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your former gf mates deserve better than you
2006-09-09 19:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋