Obviously I have been sick as a dog. So may women are and yet they still have a second one. I think adoption will be a much better option than going through this again!
2006-09-09 12:20:35 · 27 answers · asked by emilyanne 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all I never plan on having kids. Also, you said, " I think adoption will be a much better option than going through this again!" You have to go through being pregnant before you can give a child up for adoption.
2006-09-11 09:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through... When I had my first son, I asked the same question. It should get better for you. I have 3 sons (14,11,6), and 1 daughter(7). I knew the answer why when my first child was born. No Lie... Giving birth is the WORST part of it, however, when you see your child for the first time.. That is an irreplacable moment. Two years later, I had my 2nd son. I knew what I was getting into with the being sick and all and then the pain... I also knew it was going to be worth it!!!
4 years later came my daughter and... HA HA HA ...that was a whole different experience. I was sick with her before they even confimed my pregnancy on a urine test. I was so sick with her that I actually LOST 23 pounds (I weighed 143 when I got pregnant and weighed 120 the day after she was born)cause I couldnt keep anything down. She came into the world at almost 9 pounds....I admit, I cried when the doctor told me that I was pregnant with my youngest son. Luckily, with him I didnt get sick at all... My point in sharing this with you is I felt how you feel, everyone and every pregnancy is different. You will understand when you look into the eyes of your child, why alot of moms have more than one child.
I hope you start to feel better soon, hang in there. Hopefully you start feeling better by the end of the 3rd month :)
2006-09-09 13:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amen. I had a horrible first pregnancy, infact i don't think food stayed down until i was about 5 months along and had to take a little white pill 3 times a day just to keep it down. My second pregnancy, i was sick and had developed ciatica. With my 3rd pregnancy, I had high blood pressure and the ciatica but was actually able to work right up to the last month.
It was all worth it in the end because I have 3 beautiful children that no other woman can claim as her own. They're mine and i've got the scars to prove it :).
2006-09-10 01:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, people end up pregnant because
1. they are having sex
2. some people actually want to conceive.
3. Also some people want to create their child themselves opposed to adopting if they are healthy and able to do so.
I have heard and believe that once the baby comes it was all well worth it, but if you are having extreme morning sickness I heard there is a pill doctors can give you. Ask your doc about it.
Honey it will get better. By the way congratulations, and think about all the wonderful things to come, that will cheer you up.
2006-09-09 12:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt like that while i was preg. too. i had 24 hour sickness for the first thee months. it was so bad i lost 10 lbs. and i was already under weight. then for the second trimester i was so tired because i worked 40+ hours a week and had a useless husband. then in the last trimester i had the worst shooting pains that would run through my legs to my feet that would often send me falling to the floor in pain because my baby was so low. on my due date i went on maternity leave. my baby was 10 days late and i almost died having her. i had to get cut and then i nearly bled to death. but despite all of that i am thinking about having another one with my new husband because once you see your precious baby, and get to hold her for the first time and feed her, you find that it all was really worth it. those precious babes that look so cute and tiny. well, some of them. my baby was 9lb 3oz. but they are so cute and love you and you will love your baby so much that it wont even matter what happened.
there is a great book called preg. sucks. it is a very good book that is funny and informative. i loved this book when i was preg. you should try it.
2006-09-09 12:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
But just wait until you have the baby! It is such a joy.
No but my experience was after actually laboring the baby...I said this is it. And after wards my period cramps were way worse than before and every month I woudl be reminded of the pain of labor and say I'm never having another kid.
But guess what...I am about to do it all over again...I am 37 1/2 weeks and I'll be pushing any day!
The end result is worth it all!
2006-09-09 12:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you get over the thought of being sick and think about the precious child that your about to have....as yes i was VERY sick during my pregnancy..i even lost 23 lbs during the whole 8 months i was pregnant(my daughter was 5 weeks early) And also if you have a second you run the risk of being sick the whole time again or you might not be sick at all..every pregnancy is different
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2016-04-28 11:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have take into consideration not everone has the same symptoms when they are pregnant im 3 months and have not been sick at all I only experience fatigue and a big appetite so I would have another baby. just hang in there you may not be sick the whole 9 months
2006-09-09 12:51:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because once you hold that precious baby in your arms you don't care about how sick you were or how long you were in labor. When I was pregnant with my son I thought I only wanted one child. Even though he was almost 3 months early and I spent 2 1/2 months at Children's Hospital with him, I knew that I wanted to have another child.
2006-09-09 12:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋