anything that involves a naked female he watches,computer,tv,magazines i mean does that mean he wants someone else ? should i feel insecure? what? we have a great sex life so whats up
2006-09-09 12:15:47 · 20 answers · asked by wilkinson_1979 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its the nature of man to look at the opposite sex,some males have more urges to satisfy then others.As long as hes just looking and not touching i don't see the problem.Join in on the fun with your hubby,you think your sex life is good now just wait its just the beginning.
2006-09-09 13:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by john c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 06:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hubert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not interrupting your life, you should be fine. You'd be surprised to find out that many wives are upset when their husbands watch porn. They also exaggerate saying they're obsessed with it. The porn isn't something to get upset over unless it's affecting your relationship. It almost never means the guy is thinking about cheating on you. It's like fantasy, and they don't consider the pictures a replacement for you. You said you have a great sex life anyway!
However, sex isn't all of it. Are you noticing because he would rather spend his time on the computer watching porn than spending a little quality time with you? If it gets between you feeling connected with him, you need to talk to him about it, and not while he's watching it already. He'll think you're just picking a fight because you're not getting enough attention. At a meal or something, mention how it bothers you. If you work together, he'll be completely willing to do things like limit the time he spends looking at porn, or even setting aside a day for romance between the two of you that exclude porn altogether. If he's not willing to compromise even a little bit to make you feel more secure, you may need couple's counseling to work out the lack of communication.
2006-09-09 12:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a subscription to Playboy. Then read it together in bed. It will probably take you about a month to work your way thru the entire magazine. Remember read cover to cover and buff to buff. Make it a game. Oh yea, don't forget the ads in the back. Make up a game and invent your own ads. Just get involved with each other. That is all we have in this world anyway. Just each other. Oh yea, don't worry about his obsession. With practice, I am sure his obsession will turn more and more to you. Play and have loads of FUN. Good luck.
2006-09-09 12:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pam_perfect1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your ages. But after our first child was born, my husband started going to "titty bars." He said "it "relaxed" him." One night I got a babysitter and demanded to go with him and it was so gross! Men are visual that is why Playboy et al. are so profitable. And I enjoy watching the occasional porn video so long as it is in good taste. And there are some erotic books at Barnes and Noble et al. that can be exciting to read. But if he is spending too much time and money looking at porn, then there is a problem somewhere and perhaps intervention is necessary. There is a fine line between healthy and insane. BTW: My husband's perversion was a deal breaker in the marriage and we are no longer together. It sickened me after a while. Good luck.
2006-09-09 12:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by tampagirl1015 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok is this all the time? i think guys watch porn and it's quite normal. it could be his way of not cheating. it's not really that he wants a relationship with a woman in a magazine. it's a fantasy. maybe you could watch porn with him or something. it would really get him going. but if he is too offensive. then maybe you have to look at the way he is with women and you in general.
2006-09-09 12:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes woman just like the rest of the population of men, some are a little more extreme than others like your husband,does he know it bothers you,if yes he's a selfish asshole and you are a fool to put up with him.
2006-09-09 12:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him? expressed how you feel?
I would ask him to possibly drop the habit, I would think that if he´s happy w/u then no need to anything else, but you know, men are plain different and looove all that stimuli.
If he justifies himself minimizing the problem, then you should ask for professional advise. (if it bothers u, ´cause if not, then you can join him on watching)
2006-09-09 12:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by myself! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have this same problem, I watch porn and love all that is porn. My wife accepts it because I involved her and made her aware why and it's be great ever since.
I like to watch it/look at it due to the sexual desires it raises in me and she gets the "brunt" so to speak of those desires.
2006-09-09 12:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by eltarin_ivebeenhacked 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Watch it with him, try to get him going while he is watching. Watching porno is not as illicit as people make it seem. I enjoy it myself sometimes, when I'm feeling horny and need release I get one of his movies and get off on them on my own. Try it, you wont regret it.
2006-09-09 12:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋