PLEASE DONT BE MEAN ABOUT IT
2006-09-09 12:05:37 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Being different is never easy, don't let the breeders get you down. Depression often comes when you feel isolated so try and find people who are open minded enough to handle it. HOWEVER a person's sexuality is not black and white. the options are not just straight or gay/lesbian, you can simply be curious about fulfilling a fantasy so there is also bisexuality where you are attracted to both sexes. find happiness as best you can. If people in general quit focusing on the intercourse and their fear of what they don't/can't understand and instead focus on who the person is, we would all be better off. YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!!
2006-09-09 12:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are attracted to the same sex, that doesn't necessarily mean that you are gay. Not sure how old you are, but explore the feelings that you are having that make you think you are gay, talk with a open minded person about it, a parent, a teacher or a friend.
2006-09-09 12:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by widermermaid06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I went trough the same questioning (I kissed my best friend) and there was the possibility of establishing a relationship...I found out it was way too hard and complicated and didn't find it worth it because what I was really after was the thrill of doing something that is supposed to be a "taboo" and "forbidden" . I think it is normal, nobody is completely straight or completely gay!
2006-09-09 14:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you mean what should you do? there is nothing wrong with being gay!!! i don't know why people make such a big deal out of it!!! i mean a a it is tottaly normol for you to look at s and evney them for somehing, it is tottaly normal for you to wish you were that or you were friends with that . it's just something that s do. i don't know if guys do it but i know s do it, i do it all the time and i'm not gay or by!(sorry if i spelt that wrong) so don't feel ashamed (not that you should if you were gay) or weird if you look at someone and think they are pretty (or hot) and also don't feel ashamed if you are gay i think that being gay is just as normal as being straght.
P.S.
anyway guys think it's hot if s like s and they get turrned on by them kissing (i know weird huh?) and s who are stupid think that gays are weird, but you know what screw them (waight can i say that) they need to know that god made each of us the way we are for a reason. (im' soooo soooo sorry to all those religues people out there i just offended, but it's a free countrey and i have free of speech, so that was just what i thougt.)
2006-09-09 12:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
7 ways to no if you are a lesbian.
1. Have a sudden urge to like rainbows.
2. Combat boots are on sale at the army surplus store.
3. Tendency to look at other women.
4. Self masturbation.
5. Flannel shirts are on sale at J.C. Penny
6. You are attracted to Subaru Legacies.
7. You hate Men.
2006-09-09 12:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What else? Go cruise other gays... duh. What are you going to accomplish by being upset or panicked or whatever? *sigh*... might as well go mingle with some new friends! It's much better to have friends who understand you (if you don't already), so go meet them. Then, go find a girlfriend (assuming you're a girl...) and party all night like on QAF! j/k... but seriously, it isn't that big a deal, okay? Whether you like guys, girls, animals, whatever, it does NOT matter! Emotions don't make such distinctions. Besides, why would you ever want to be a loser hetero in the first place...? Ugh...
2006-09-09 12:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
its hard to accept it when you first realise you are gay, its scary. you dont want your friends and family looking at you any different.
bthe first and most important thing to do is accept it fully yourself. if you dont you'll become miserable. once you fully except it you'll be a lot happier in yourself. there is nno big rush to "come out" to everyone. do it when you feel the time is right, dont do it if you have doubts.
most importantly, be happy
2006-09-09 17:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by lan f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well its either you are attracted to the same sex as yourself or not i know many gays and lesbians so all i can tell you is there's not a whole lot you can do besides staying in the closet and living a lie or coming out and being true to you
2006-09-09 12:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to someone who is gay. Get a better perspective. If you really like girls, it will be an on-going thing not something that is here today, gone tomorrow.
2006-09-09 12:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ms, you did not give your age but, think about this before you act on something that you will sorry for later. Hang around with both sexes and just be yourself and see who you are most comfortable with. Take your time and let things happen naturally. Good luck.
2006-09-09 12:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋