Im a little nervous about it but I like when he puts his finger in there. Any suggestion or techniques I need to know about along with positions?
2006-09-09 11:20:19 · 24 answers · asked by Tara B 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hmmm...
brave girl...
as he penetrates...it helps to bear down like you are going...or trying to push him out.
If he goes slow - it can be pleasureable...
He will love it...
- it helps if you try to go to the bathroom first...and shower so you're clean.
If you have regular sex afterwards - without cleaning up...make sure he wears a condom cuz you can get a yeast infection really easy.
enjoy
2006-09-09 11:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's real reason to be nervous. If you don't do it right, or if his member is huge, it can hurt like hell and might even tear your anus. So be prepared for your anus to hurt a bit.
This part is a must for you and your partner both: make sure that the anal area is completely clean. If he does tear you a bit there when you're doing it, it has less likelyhood of infecting the area. Make sure that you've done enough foreplay, you'll know. But before he starts aiming his tool at your anus, make him play with it a little. A good tonguing of your ****** is fun, too. It tickles and is sensual all at once, and it really makes you desire his tool in your butt. Then use a lubricant, like KY or Vaseline to make sure that the first time is smooth and less likely to tear your anus. Do it doggy style the first time, it's easiest and the best way for you. Go very slow, don't let him just ram it into your butt. Make sure he's under control as he does this. As he gets the head to your hole, you do the pushing instead of him. Have him kneel in back of you with the head of his penis to your ******. Then YOU push back onto his rod. This way, you are controling the actions. If it hurts too much, just stop. But if it is going well, you keep on pushing. Try to get the head into your anus before you give up the first time. That will be the major stumbling block. If you get the head in, the rest will go rather smoothly. Yeh, it'll feel weird with the whole length of his rod going into your anus, but after a while, it will feel normal and sensual.
My ex wife couldn't have an orgasm unless I was in her butt. The first time we did it, she just about went through the roof and had seven orgasms while I did her in the butt. After that, we did it regularly. Not every time, but often. She always came when we did.
Lots of luck and ENJOY! Let us know how it worked out.
2006-09-11 04:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean out well..you don't need to be worried about a mess during all this.
on your back, relax, get very hot, nature will take its course...IF he knows what he is doing. He should use those fingers first!!!! You do not need to be popped! Certainly do not be afraid to do yourself while he is working at it...will make it much better for you..no need for pain of any kind here. just slow and easy.
Slow at first, then everything will be fine...Be careful not to put that thing in the front port AFTER it has been in the back port without a good wash down in the shower!
good luck
2006-09-09 11:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
A slow start is best,a little finger action to get the muscles relaxed some lube and let the fun begin.It would be a good idea to make sure you have had a bowel movement before you begin.Things can get messy sometimes.
2006-09-09 11:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A good thorough flushing first. Then plenty of lube. Have him work you open with his fingers first. When you can comfortably take 3 fingers, you are ready. He should wear a condom, as the naturally occuring bacteria that lives in your rectum can give him a urinary tract infection, and I don't think he wants to explain to his doc what happened. Then again, he might enjoy a little bragging.
2006-09-09 11:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
have him take it nice and slow. if you have not had it before it can hurt until you relax and get use to the pressure and the feel of his dick in you. I really enjoy anal sex from my partner, you may have a feeling that you need to poo when you really dont need to after the first time and find that the first time you do it hurts a little. I dont have anymore pain from anal sex just use lots of lube and go slow until you get use to the feel.
2006-09-09 13:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you utilize a condom there are no problems in any respect. you ought to use some lubrificants (yet do notice that vaseline would injury condom) to steer away from your lady experiencing discomfort... and sharing in basic terms exhilaration. in case you do no longer use a condom, the two woman and male have little danger to by probability share some micro organism, infections or viruses, on a similar time as doing anal intercourse... it relies upon from the well-being status of the two certainly one of you. in case you decide directly to do anal intercourse without condom, you will desire to be constructive sufficient the two certainly one of you companions have no extreme ailment. while you're unsure sufficient, DO USE condom. Do notice that anal intercourse without condom is much extra risky, than vaginal intercourse, to get contaminated via HIV and different deadly viruses... better is which you and your better half would desire to have a scientific verify-up, sooner or later or yet another, in case you had some adventurous intercourse existence contained in the previous. you do no longer would desire to be shy or worry your parther reaction or argue... you're the two grownup human beings. intercourse is extra exhilaration once you're surely constructive which you're the two in sturdy well-being. many human beings think of that having a scientific verify-up on venereal illnesses is unuseful and embarrassing... they're going to journey the outcomes.
2016-09-30 12:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, where were you when I was looking for a woman. All I can suggest is use lots of lube.
2006-09-09 11:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by eric g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo naughty.. use lubrication if you dont want it to hurt too much..but its still gonan hurt and feel uncomfortable!
ps: plus his finger is much smaller then his penis..so b ready
2006-09-09 11:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by jenny j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube it up, then go for slow doggy, lucky you two!
2006-09-09 11:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by kid666_nz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋