My girlfriend will not allow me to please her the way I would like. She wants to do all the pleasing while I lye on my back. It's getting boring, and me eyes are starting to wander....
2006-09-09 11:19:51 · 16 answers · asked by Vanity 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If u've already tried talking 2 her about it...Don't let her have her way with u, act disinterested...then she'll c how it feels...she'll realize that she can't always have her way...
2006-09-09 11:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Inquizitiv1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the truth and that you are getting bored sexually with her. I'm sure she'll change her ways if she really wants things to work out in the end.
2006-09-10 15:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grab her, tackle her, and start licking. Im not kidding. It always works. Giving a woman the tongue is the most sexy thing u can do.
2006-09-10 17:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by lovinem143 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST. Carefully let her know how you are feeling and that the relationship as it stands is not working for you. If she cares about you, then she will make accommodations to make you happy too.
2006-09-09 20:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's old school butch to me, which means she probably ain't gonna change.
have you told her how you feel, and that you are totally frustrated.
or maybe she just has something she's trying to hide from you, any case girl you get to the bottom of it or move on from it!
2006-09-09 21:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a stud myself, I like to please my woman. I really do think it has to do with control. But if the woman i'm with wanted me to let her please me... then I would do it to make her happy. Ultimately it's about making your woman happy. Talk to her. Make it fun, tell her you want to tie her up and YOU want to be in charge. If she's anything like me then it's about control, but she probably will think its sexy that you want to be in charge.
Good Luck!
2006-09-10 06:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by angelajock 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has control issues. And it may never change.
2006-09-10 00:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you really need to talk to her...i would go crazy if my girlfriend didn't let me do anything to her! explain to her that your needs go further than just her pleasing you...it's a two-way street
2006-09-09 18:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by batman13 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
girl don't u know that is wonderful u better enjoy it because it could be the opposite where she didn't want u on your back so enjoy and hey if u don't want her send her my way lol
2006-09-09 18:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by lost in love 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you aren't compatible, you really need to talk it through if you want to stay together. Otherwise, end it. Don't drag it out.
2006-09-09 18:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋