I don’t know how to say this so here it goes.
I just felt like kicking my brother in the balls, me and my girlfriends do it all the time in school. So I started playfighting with him, he was letting me win, when he was on the floor facing me I stomped on his balls, he cried but I did it again and one ball slipped out of the way but the othr was kinda trapped and then I felt a pop under my foot; he passed out and turned very pale! I had no idea they could pop! I told my parents it was an accident. His heart almost stopped on the way to the hospital. They managed to save the ruptured testicle but it will not work anymore.
My Mother was so mad; she gave a big beating, and told me to stay on my room until they decide what to do with me!!! She can not beat me like that, that is abuse, and I hate her. My father do not even wants to see me. Why they don’t believe me?! I locked my door. WHAT CAN I DO TO PROTECT MYSELF?!!!! No stupid answers please.
2006-09-09 11:10:30 · 30 answers · asked by a2_sexygirl 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Sounds like it's your brother and parents who need to be protected from your whims to inflict pain on others. It could possibly be that you are developing psychopathic tendencies and are in need of psychiatric help. Get advice now it's never to late.
2006-09-09 11:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
If any of your story is true, you need psychological help. You intentionally hurt your brother and kept hurting him after he started to cry.
I'm not sure you understand the severity of what you have done. You have probably destroyed his chances of ever having children. Ever. They can't fix testicles once they have been torn lose.
There is the possibility that you could have ruptured a blood vessel and caused him to bleed to death.
Instead of being mad at your parents for disciplining you, you should be crying at your brother's bedside begging him to forgive you. You should be accepting all the punishment and begging them to forgive you.
It is absolutely incomprehensable that you would do such a cruel and heartless thing to anyone, let alone your own brother.
It is not funny to inflict so much harm on someone. That is the same as someone forcibly wrecking your uterus so you can never have children. Testicles are a very important, very delicate part of the male anatomy. That is the one part of the body on a male that when assaulted renders excrutiating pain to the male. It is no laughing matter.
Of course, I do believe, you know all of this. If your story is true, you need help my little friend. You need counseling badly. I find it to be horrifying that you could do such an awful thing.
If you did this, and you don't feel badly about it, especially after everyone explaining to you the severity of what you have done...He can never have kids of his own...THEN you are a sick person. HEAR this GET HELP!!! It is not normal to want to hurt people like that and it's not normal to hurt someone and then feel badly.
They don't believe you because of the damage you did. No one does that kind of damage accidently. It's done after prolonged pressure and if you put pressure on him for that long, you knew what you were doing, you heard his cries, and you watched him pass out.
For you to hate your mother because she hurt you in retaliation for hurting your brother is self-centered and shows you have no remorse. You should accept the beating and anymore that follow and then beg everyone for forgiveness.
It's appalling to say the least. To even think up such a horrendous action is sickening. Regardless, if you did or not, you need to seek counseling for even thinking up such horror.
2006-09-09 19:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
And then they all lived happily ever after....
You are talking a lot of hot air I believe.
If you had really done this, then you will no doubt be investigated by a psychologist to assess what kind of emotional or mental issue is causing you act in such an unacceptable manner.
And to be quite fair, whilst I don´t necessarily agree with hitting children, I can sympathise with why a parent would lose their rag with you IF this was true. Don´t do anything like that again and you should be quite safe.
2006-09-10 05:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were my kid I would beat the living **** out of you and then drop you off in front of the police station! Do you realize that you have just changed the course of your brothers life FOREVER? He may not even be able to have children now if he wanted them. All because you thought it was funny? You have done permanent physical and mental damange to your brother. Why don't they believe you? Because it was NOT an accident, stomped on your brothers testicle with the intent to HURT him. You are a horrible and sick person.
2006-09-10 02:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by J O 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are a very aggressive, but if you were my sister and done that to me, you would of got one kick in that's it. The other kick would of been accross your face with my right foot using my Tae Kwon Do and if you survived it you would see me getting my butt whooped for being so agressive.
have I taught you anything?
I didn't think so.,. so lets move on.
Your actions are also manipulated by stronger and more positive angles towards somebody else. You also have a way of typing that reveals to me that your astonished at your self for what you do in life and not necessarily kicking someone in the balls to watch it pop makes you a bad person., just unlikely tolerable to any put down.
2006-09-09 23:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time you and your family got some counselling, for anger management. If your brother was in a situation, where you got that mad at him. All of you need to seek help from a professional. Stay in your room until they tell you to come out, and be careful of what you do. You are responsible for your actions as is everyone else in the home.
2006-09-10 19:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't your parents believe what???!!!
You did this on purpose. It was a very cruel thing to do. You do this all the time at school????? Why and how do you get by with this.
Your parents are not going to "hurt or abuse you".
You injured and damaged your brother for life for no reason.
I am sure they are trying to figure out the best way to handle this.
My guess is that they will take you to therapy, to determine why you get enjoyment out of injuring boys, those at school and your own brother.
It may be a while before your parents and brother can forgive you. Your parents almost lost their son, your brother almost lost his life.
Do not act like the victim.............this is all your doing and it will take some time and therapy heal some of it.
I pray for your family. Among your mother, father and brother, you are damaged the least.............do not act like you are the victim.
2006-09-09 18:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
Their beating you is abuse and what you did to your brother is not? You sound like a very cruel person. "It was an accident" is what all criminals say. Yes, I'm calling YOU a criminal. If I were you I'd tell my parents I need therapy because I am out of control.
2006-09-12 10:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe ppl are telling you how to get away! You step on your brother's balls and you expect ppl to have pitty on you? No! If you run away it won't be too hard to find you. All they have to do is look for the next guy w/ ruptured testicles.
2006-09-10 01:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
And what you did to your brother ISN'T abuse?! You think he DOESN'T hate you for it?! You think he WANTS to see you and your girlfriends?! He's terrified of you! He and your parents have every right to be upset. This was no "accident". It was reckless conduct, and I think you know that.
I doubt your parents want to beat the stuffing out of you. They might take you to counseling or report you to the police as a juvenile in need of supervision. Maybe they'll send you off to boot camp or press charges so you end up in juvenile detention. You need to change your behavior NOW.
2006-09-09 19:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE A SADIST.
YOUR PARENTS MUST BE SO PROUD OF YOU. (NOT)
AND BECAUSE YOU SEE YOURSELF AS THE VICTIM HERE, YOU MUST ALSO BE NARCISSISTIC. A DANGEROUS COMBINATION.
WERE YOU EVEN SEXUALLY ASSULTED IN THE PAST? IS THAT WHY YOU HARBOR SUCH ANIMOSITY AND HATRED OF MEN? OR DID YOUR FATHER JUST NOT GIVE YOU ENOUGH ATTENTION?
OF COURSE YOUR PARENTS ARE HORRIFIED BY HOW YOU TURNED OUT. YOU HAVE ALLOWED YOURSELF TO BEHAVE LIKE A SOCIOPATH.
YOU NEED TO GET SOME SERIOUS COUNSELING, AND/OR SPEND SOME TIME IN A JUVENILE FACILITY.
2006-09-11 14:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋