why are people being such inconsiderate fools and keep putting pressure on the people to lose their virginity
i lost my virginity to a boy who never had any sexual experience and i loved making love to him. feelings are your greatest asset in giving soemone pleasure and making them happy. his touch was just heavenly. because he loved me. it came naturally. it was beautiful. i dated two other boys and they were lousy lovers but very "experienced". why don't people realize this is about the level of emotional involvement and something special only you and your partner share??
even some types of animals (swans) are more romantic than a lot of people out there. they stay together for life.
i'm just disgusted at some of the ways intimate moments are being treated between two people who are supposed to love each other.
thanks.
2006-09-09 11:08:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
darlings, please don't insult yourself by posting ape-like comments
2006-09-09 11:15:29 · update #1
Is there a question in this looooooooong rambling posting?
2006-09-09 11:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by rab 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Virginity is a touch debatable difficulty those days. on the only hand there are females who're embarrassed that they are nevertheless virgins, and desire to get rid of their virginity, and on the different hand there are nevertheless adult men who wish their different halves to be virgins and it is so important to them. i'm no longer a guy, so i will't answer the 1st question. yet what i think of is that we ought to continuously settle for ourselves (us females) as we are and we ought to continuously be wide-unfold in turn with the help of the guy who loves as we are. Human could make blunders... the previous will stay the previous... it rather isn't any use to objective digging the previous... no use feeling accountable or embarrassed... each little thing has a beginning up and the beginning up does not inevitably propose continuously... to comprehend the custom of virginity and why it concerns, enable's take a glance at Sigmund Freud's rationalization. Freud, on the beginning up of "The Taboo of Virginity", states here: "The call for that a female shall no longer deliver to her marriage with a particular guy any memory of sexual family with yet another is, certainly, no longer something different than a logical continuation of the astonishing of unique possession of a female, which varieties the essence of monogamy, the extension of this monopoly to cover the previous." "Whoever is the 1st to fulfill a virgin's want for romance, long and laboriously held in examine, and who in doing so overcomes the resistances that have been equipped up in her in the process the impacts of her milieu and coaching, this is the guy she would manage to take into an enduring relationship, the potential of which will by no skill lower back be open to the different guy." "This experience creates a state of bondage interior the female which ensures that possession of her shall proceed undisturbed and makes her in a position to stand up to new impressions and enticements from exterior."
2016-11-07 00:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. Sex has become a recreational sport instead of sharing of love between TWO people like it should be. It's sad that most of the world doesn't realize this.
2006-09-09 11:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I DEFINITELY FEEL THAT "SEX' IS OVERRATED AND THAT YOU SHOULD NOT SLEEP WITH SOMEONE UNLESS YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THAT PERSON. YOU ABSOLUTELY DO NOT WANT TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY TO SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU AND THEN WHEN IT'S ALL OVER YOU FEEL LIKE PIG VOMIT HAS JUST BEEN POURED ALL OVER YOU. YOU ALSO DON'T WANT A SITUATION WHERE YOU CAN'T FIND THE CLOWN THE MORNING AFTER EITHER...SO, I GUESS EITHER WAY, IT'S A GAMBLE.
I AGREE WITH YOU TOTALLY...IF NO FEELINGS ARE INVOLVED HE COULD HAVE SLEPT WITH 5 DONKEYS, 3 PIGS, AND HIS OWN MOTHER AND IT WOULDN'T MAKE A BIT OF DIFFERENCE. GOOD LUCK...
2006-09-09 11:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As Jack Handy said, "Its no big deal that swans mate for life. I mean, if you're a swan, chances are you're not going to do any better than the swan that you're mating with now, so why not mate for life,"
And as Billy Madison once said, "Stop looking at me, Swan"
2006-09-09 11:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes, we have turned sex into plumbing, when in fact it is a very emotionaly involving intimate experience
it is sad
and one of the most dysfunctional parts of our culture
this attitude plays a big part in much of the lonliness and divorce and betrayal and misery that is becoming one of the hallmarks of our culture
2006-09-09 11:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by enginerd 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
the people who put pressure on people to have sex really dont care about the relationship...it should come naturally, and not be puched
2006-09-09 11:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by RB1124 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cant explain the lack of understanding by others but.... i enjoy just having skin on skin w/my fiance being held...if it leads to more than it does if not i ust like the way he feels!
2006-09-09 11:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rain S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
intimacy and love can be two seperate things in to them selves........swapping bodily fluids and loving someone is not the same thing.........yes it is great when those two things do meet up.....but never force them to meet they will in their own way and time for each and every person........
2006-09-09 11:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by scotdic 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's a very interesting observation...Thanks for sharing that with us.
2006-09-09 11:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋