why are people being such inconsiderate fools and keep putting pressure on the people to lose their virginity
i lost my virginity to a boy who never had any sexual experience and i loved making love to him. feelings are your greatest asset in giving soemone pleasure and making them happy. his touch was just heavenly. because he loved me. it came naturally. it was beautiful. i dated two other boys and they were lousy lovers but very "experienced". why don't people realize this is about the level of emotional involvement and something special only you and your partner share??
even some types of animals (swans) are more romantic than a lot of people out there. they stay together for life.
i'm just disgusted at some of the ways intimate moments are being treated between two people who are supposed to love each other.
thanks.
2006-09-09 11:07:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
to Michael: this is not just about virginity
read me again
2006-09-09 12:07:58 · update #1
ummm...you've already lost your virginity...what's the big fuss about?
2006-09-09 12:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by michael.avery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i know i find it also so inconsiderate and just wrong how much pressure they put on everyone to their virginity. In highschool it makes you cool to be the first to lose it your group of friends, in college you might aswell pretend you´ve lost it cuz you´ll be considered a major nerd if you havent. Somehow its supposed to be all bout how much booty you can get, they´ve forgotten the main REASON for actually wantin to have sex is being in love. I guess along the way, its become a status thing...just like with piercings or tattoos in a way....a couple of years ago this was like a taboo, and only the "bad" guys n girls had it, and now "bad" is like attractive. Just like with sex was (and actually still is considered a "sin" by some. Well, pre-martial sex is anyway) but now..being a player is just "cool".
Its so weird, isnt it, how there´s 2 types of pressure, one to definitely not have sex until your married and one to lose your virginity as soon as you can. All i can say is, i think one should wait until their in love, but people should be allowed to make their own decisions, without any pressure, especially from society and the media, just as long as they are REALLY sure its what they want, and they´ve had enough sex education to know how to protect themselves and everything.
2006-09-10 13:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that viginity is a sacred thing. But I think it should be saved for marriage. Since that is going to be the person you will love forever and always. (don't throw in divorce)
I know what you mean by pressure. They treat sex like a novelty item, its disgusting.
2006-09-09 18:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Prodigious*~ 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Idon't know. Hey, it's yours you do what ever your heart tells you to. Forge what other people think or say.
2006-09-09 18:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So it is for Micheal and not about all.
2006-09-10 07:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry be happy
2006-09-09 18:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i know. sex isnt everything. passion is.
2006-09-10 02:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by A 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
ok...
2006-09-09 18:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by freded_124 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋