he's walways telling me that we're just friends but he's always teasing me.. I'm going to Moscow in two daysand I called him to see how he feels about and he said we should hang out. He's Russian and tough..and well, he's a boy! should i attack him? maybe pour some sleeping pilss on his water and do whatever i feel like doing? or should i respect his privacy? i'm in touch with his gf and she told me she can help me...she can get him in adark room and start and then i would show up...pls, I'm desperate!
2006-09-09 11:04:05 · 20 answers · asked by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What should I do? he's all in my life..He's my Prince Charming to live my fairy tale!
2006-09-09 11:05:06 · update #1
well, why then would he ask me to suck him?
2006-09-09 11:12:32 · update #2
you'll just have to confront him, i guess. try this:
as you're parting after a visit, tell him that you don't want to scare him away but you have serious feelings for him, that he doesn't have to get into a serious relationship with you, but that it would mean a lot to you if you could have a non romantic deeper friendship with him, that he doesn't have to answer now, but just think about it, for you...
and leave before he or you can say anything more. Don't contact him for a few days, let him think about it, really Think about it. Then, when you next get in contact, don't even mention it. Let him bring it up, because if you say exactly the right thing to leave someone thinking seriously about something, and then let them think as long as they need, and then let them tell you rather than ask for their answer, it will be their true feelings, from the heart, and neither of you will have anything to regret.
If he agrees, you have my best wishes.
If he thinks you would both be better off staying the way you are, then I'm afraid you'll just have to let it go. But you'll still have my best wishes, along with my hopes that you will one day find someone who will make you as happy as he could have.
2006-09-09 13:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by eri_mizawa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take if from me, the voice of experience...this will NOT be as good as your fantasy makes it out to be. It could WELL ruin your friendship, and it could give you very bad feelings about yourself. With all the Gay men in the world, why are you so set on a bruising? If he is straight, this cannot lead anywhere but a roll in the hay...that will add to your angst and do nothing for him. This really makes no sense what so ever, we both know it. Good luck. You are not going to find love on this street.
2006-09-09 18:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hon, time to stop living a fairytale and live real life. Clearly he's NOT your Prince Charming or things would be a bit different. You can't make him something he's not.
I can't believe you would consider doing something like that to someone you supposedly care so much about. Sounds like the best thing you could do for him and yourself would be to get out of his life.
2006-09-09 18:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ROFLMAO.
You think his GIRLFRIEND knows and HE DOESN'T? Get real! Just move on, he's not your Prince Charming, he's hers. Find someone else and get a backbone, it may hurt but at least YOU'LL STILL HAVE A FRIEND!
2006-09-09 20:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really are just friends, respect him as your friend. It can be extremely hard, but if you REALLY care about him---LET HIM BE. It sounds like he respects your sexuality, so why don't you return the favor and respect his!
However, if he ever makes the first move--GO FOR IT!!!
2006-09-09 20:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
like you said it's a fairy tale...more of your imagination than real....at best you might have some physical encounter with him..at worst you will lost him as friend forever. it's one thing to fantasize but when you actually acted on your fantasy you are commiting a crime.
2006-09-09 19:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. you know he's straight
2. he has a girlfriend
3. he says "you're just friends" but "teases you"
you say you are inlove, and that he is your fairy tale.
you're going to get badly hurt and feeling used if you don't analize this better
2006-09-09 22:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Sleeping pills, including his girlfriend? You sound pretty obsessed. You better just leave him alone! You wouldn't like someone trying to change your sexual orientation would you? That is so disrespectful. Better find a new fantasy to replace that one, or better yet a new person who will appreciate you for who you are.
2006-09-09 18:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Please! If you truly care for this man, you would not consider drugging him or in any other way trying to get him to have sexual relations with you against his will.
Grow up and find a gay man. There are plenty of us out here.
2006-09-09 21:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has asked you to suck him, start with that and see how much more he lets you do or how much he does to you.
2006-09-10 02:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋