I just moved in with a guy I met last semester. I am a really nice guy. The guy I moved in with is sort of starting to make me mad because he tries to force his agenda on me. Instead of asking me if I want to do something, and then waiting for me to say yes or no and then respecting which ever answer I give. He litteraly will try to tell me what I want to do and then if he doesnt like the answer he pushes and pushes. Any advice, I really dont want to start a war, cuz I have only been living here for about a month. Oh ya he has a really bad tendancy to talk about his supposed friends behind their backs. Ill sit their and listen to him tell me how to stupid or dumb someone is and then the next second they comeover and their like best buds. I wonder what he says about me behind my back... And Advice thanks
2006-09-09 10:59:57 · 9 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
smack his face...
not really an actual smack...
tell his friends about the things that he had tell you...
all the bad thing that he had tell you about them...
2006-09-09 11:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just got to be honest with him and tell him you have your own life and would really not like to be added into his.Because if he's that dishonest with his friends if I were you I woudn't want to be stuck being around him all of the time.He's got a controling problem but please don't start allowing him to control you or you will end up hating him.Tell him outside of living together you'd rathier not be one of his buddies.Just let him know you already see him all the time and so you need to lead seperate life styles.And if he's mature enough he'll understand.Good Luck!!!
2006-09-09 11:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to half to make this a room mate only relationship and nothing more. You know he is telling his buddies how dum and stupid you are. He is also very controlling which is going to cause more problems in the future. Concentrate on school and find friends who are on your own maturity and intelligence level. Maybe you can find a better rooomie later...good luck
2006-09-09 11:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Annie R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable tell him you are moving out. He may ask why and you should tell him. He may or may not respect your opinion but who cares, if he is bashing his best buddies, no doubt he is bashing you. Find a girl to move in with , as friends, oposite sex roomates tend to work out better.
2006-09-09 11:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that since you guys are roomates, he should treat you with the same respect that you give him, if he cant then you just need to find another place to live.
2006-09-09 11:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a bad roommate and I moved out just wait for your lease to be up and than move.
2006-09-09 11:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's immature.
just carry on with your own things and he will get the message.
don't spend a lot of time listening to him, because that makes him think you are needy and impressionable.
2006-09-09 11:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about it.. he needs to realize that what he's doing isnt fair to you and/or his friends/your friends!
2006-09-09 11:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you feel
2006-09-09 11:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋