I'm hoplessly in love with my fiance, he's everthing that i want in a man and would absolutly die if i lost him, but things are changing its hard to explain but here goes, I dnt want to kiss him, its not that the thought of it makes me sick or nething i just dnt want too, and i cant stop thinking about 2 of me ex's. theres one that i see around alot, we never speak but wen i do see him my stomache flips ova an ove again and i get all excited(not in a rude sense) and the other one, we wpeak occasionally but his ex doesnt allow it, but wen im out and see someone he knws i search the place for him hoping i can catch him alone or steal a glance.
IF I'm alone i can sit for hours thinkin about them, especially the first, why am i doing this to the man i love?? we've been together for 2 yrs, engaged a year, getting married in 1, why oh why!
2006-09-09 10:28:51 · 11 answers · asked by GeorgieP 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do they have classes in school that teach you stupid questions so you can come on the internet and show off your stupiditry
2006-09-09 10:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something that your ex's have that your fiance doesn't. Sounds like you are still looking for the perfect partner and haven't found him yet. You either need to accept that you will probably never find the absolutely most perfect guy in the word but still marry the one you are with... or leave him in the hope that you find someone who more closely fits what you are looking for.
Good luck.
P.S. Maybe just cold feet and you will get over it and get married and enjoy the rest of your life.
2006-09-10 03:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you need a break from each other to see if you really do love him. I felt like this after 13 years of marriage, but you should still be so in love with your bloke that you can't think of anyone else, especially as you have'nt even got married yet.
Good luck with this. It may be hard to end a relationship but its better to sort it out before you marry him. Divorce is so expensive!
After all that tho, it might just be a nervous reaction to the thought of settling down. You have only mentioned old boyfriends, its not like you have started a new relationship with someone else
2006-09-09 17:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by crissylizb06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the man for you,he is the great freind you need to make yourself whole,as you are dependant on him and not indapendant.
As for the Ex`s,they are just memories of the good things you had,and do remember you did split up with them for some reason or other.
We so easily forget the horror in this world that is done to us.
2006-09-09 19:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by asmoothrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like he really is the man you should marry. You have stuff to get out of your system first
2006-09-09 17:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by murft66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur obviously not hopelessly in love wi ur fiance if ur thinkin of exes like that....for gods sake dont get married it wont work and theres enough divorces goin on anyways, sort ur head out b4 u jump in2 anything!! good luck.
ps... love ur avatar :)
2006-09-10 13:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause hjes not the 1 4 u xxxx
2006-09-09 17:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that ex. boyfriends or husbands. I do not think you want to settle down at the moment, you yearn for security regardless of love. Don,t do it.
2006-09-09 17:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave before you are suck in a loveless marriage with loads of kids and no way out, its not fair on either of you to let your relationship continue
2006-09-09 17:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by emmamac14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cold feet and the fact that you dont want to loose that single feeling
2006-09-09 17:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by what 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋