We failed to have penetrative sex coz I didnt allow him to penetrate fully.each time he tried i was in great pain so he stopped.But his finger penetrated fully.whats the matter?he told me it will penetrate after few more attempts.im tensed.
2006-09-09 10:18:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to tell you my experience from the first attempts at sex.
I couldn't do it either, the pain was to intense.
When I finally did do it, it was very painfull !!! The first several times were.... I talked to my mom about it and she had me go to the Dr's office. They discovered I has a smaller canal (vaginal) than the normal average woman. And upon research, this is common in more women than most people know.
It wasn't till I had my child that my canal became more viable (so to speak). But, I still can not handle well endowed men.
I was older when I first tried to have sex, and, I hope you are also, other wise, I don't want to encourage you to have sex, especially if you are not physically or emotionally ready!!
But, if you are of the right age, please go see a Dr. and maybe he can discover if you have a similar problem or not.
2006-09-09 10:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Torri * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known two women who had this problem. A visit to the doctor and a little snip (with anesthetic) might take care of the matter. It did for the two women I knew. You may have a thick hymen and thus a very small vaginal opening. A doctor can enlarge the opening. You may be sore for a few days, but after it heals, you'll be good to go, so to speak.
2006-09-15 11:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by azera221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you have NO CLUE what you are doing. Wait until you get a little older, dear. Really, sex is for mature adults not people playing with fingers.
2006-09-09 10:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋