Please dont hold back , I plan to print this up and hand it to him the next time he finds the time for his son.
2006-09-09 10:16:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Basket case , Thanx but I'll be honest . I work and take care of our kid by myself and all I ask is that he see him on the weekends so I can go on date too .
2006-09-09 10:33:24 · update #1
someone who probably listened to his girlfriend and decided not to get an in argument with her over his son, so he decided to break his son's heart other than his damn girlfriend. And when he feels lonely only then will he even bother to come see his son. His girlfriend should understand that he has a child and she should not try to come between that, she is a skank.
2006-09-09 10:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He`s getting his bean snapped!! I know he should see his son and that`s know excuse but when the little brain gets blood going threw it it shuts the big brain down!! If he doesn`t start picking him up soon or on a regular routine then have his child support adjusted. Part of child support is based on when the father sees his child/ children and if he only seeing your son every once in a while then have it adjusted to his visitaion. I` ll bet he will start picking him up more often. He should get his priority`s straight because girlfriends / boyfriends come and go but your child looks up to you and how you treat them as far as being a parent. If he`s not being a parent it will show in the future when his son gets old enough to where he doesn`t want to see him any more. Trust me I`ve been threw this and the kids start to see things at a young age and they won`t let you forget it either. I had this happen to me with my daughter and we worked things out but for 2 years she wouldn`t have anything to do with me because what she was told and I moved out of state and didn`t see her a s much. I`d give anything to have those 2 years back because I missed out on a lot of her growing up. She went from being my little girl to a teenager and now a women and I some how missed some of it by not focusing on what was important and worrying about drinking and having a good time!! Good Luck!! Tell your x to pull his head out of his a s s !!!
2006-09-09 10:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doing this all the time-----not good. If he's casually seeing his girlfriend then let it go. Hopefully you aren't brain washing your kids into forming their opinions based on your emotions/feelings towards him. He'll pick up on that and think nuts on all of you. Just be careful not to let your kids feel what you're feeling. It isn't the quantity of time that he puts into them obviously since he isn't under one roof with them any more. It's now based on quality. What is he doing with them during their visit that makes it count? Sometimes visits seem pointless when they just sit and watch tv while he might be on the computer all day or doing some project. Visits that count are when he has a constructive plan to involve them all with him. That's how memories form. And that's what they'll remember. What will hurt your kids is if you're telling them that he cares more about his girlfriend than his kids. NEVER do that. They will take that to heart and it might not even be the case.
2006-09-09 10:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well an idiot, a selfish moron, a stupid person and this is just for starters. I unfortunately have a brother that has 4 kids from a previous marriage and his oldest will be 15 in May and he doesn't have time for them at all. He's married now to the idiot he was "dating" while still married with his wife. He never made time for them while he was in the process of the divorce and four years later same situation. I can't do much, but I hate that. Sometimes my nieces say well we haven't seen daddy in over a month. Our city isn't big and still he doesn't make the time. I feel sad for him, not much for them 'cause they'll soon have to lead their own lives and unfortunately it'll be to late for him when he realizes he missed most of their greatest years in their life.
2006-09-09 10:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Geneddly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My situation is a long story but I wrap it up pretty quick. me and my exgirlfriend lived together with her 2 kids ages 3 and 6 and my daughter is 17. my ex and I would get into it over my daughter more than anything else. she didn't think I should have to do anything with her or do anything for her unless it was my weekend to have her. and thought I should be able to make my daughter accept her and her kids as if they were her family. she said I made my kids accept you and I said there is a big age difference there too. anyway, I was not and will not put her or anyone else in front of my daughter no matter how bad it hurts. there is more to it than this sums it up pretty quick. just cant put anyone else before my daughter!! I could go on and on about it and tell you lots of things but take to long and dont have enough room here to write it all!! I still get mad to think about how it all went down!!
2006-09-09 10:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Barry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A total scumbag. He can hump on his girlfriend during the week, but the weekends should be for his son. I mean, seriously, is it too much for a guy to want to spend a weekend with his kid? He's got the other five days of the week to do what he wants.
He's a selfish pin-head.
2006-09-09 10:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
A bust down deatbeat who needs his face broken- I have more to say. Maybe his girlfriend is the problem. She could be putting things in his head. Some men are weak like that. A man should want to spend time with his son. I'm sorry you are going through that.
2006-09-09 10:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An uncommited father who doesn't care about his kids. Someone who didn't have a role modle growing up to show him the true reason's why he should be home with his kids instead of going out. Someone who shouldn't even of had kids in the first place (you said not to hold back).
2006-09-09 10:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Possibly the same as the type of woman who would dump her kids on their father at weekends so she can spend time with her boyfriend.
It never pays to be making judgements based on just one side of any story, does it?
And what we have been given is very much just one side of the story.
2006-09-09 10:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot stress how much this boy will remember these times when his Dad should have taken him out and done somethings with him like play ball, fish, do DIY with him.
When this young lad turns 18 for some reason in Dad bonding he will want to have a pint with his son and will realise how much he has lost out on.
Or daughter for that matter
2006-09-09 10:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋