i want to call him all the time or look at pictures of us or remember the good times.. but i know this will not help me get over him!! i know i have to move on.
how do i work on letting him go and resisting the urge to do these things?
thanks guys.
2006-09-09 10:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Breaking up is always hard, expecially if goin together for awhile.....Try to find new things to do, things u and him didnt do together......Go out with ur friends to places u've always wanted to go, not places u used to go... Its all about a NEW routine and keeping busy so u dont think bout him..... Good Luck
2006-09-09 10:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw away all the pictures and find someone new, even if it's just a friend. You might also want to keep in mind the reason why you two brokw up. Why would you want to keep in contact still. You two broke up for a reason. If you found someone knew and found other ways/people to spend your time with, you wouldn't have to deal with the urge of wanting to keep in contact with him. You'll have far more other things to do rather than keeping him on your mind.
2006-09-09 17:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am having the same problem but i dumped my ex in december. what i had to do to resist the urge to talk to him is delete him out of everything and just busy myself with friends for 3 months. and after that 3 months i allowed myself to look at pictures and think about it because i knew that i was better off now. plus memories are great they are happy and can cheer you up.
2006-09-09 17:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by abbyhayes22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time to get over him...everyone needs a "mourning period". Go out with your friends, get some hobbies, go the gym and work out, voluteer your time to a charity, go shopping. Do things that get you out of your head and into the world around you.
and whatever you do, dont complain to new suitors about you ex--they dont want to hear it...LOL
2006-09-09 17:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by tankgrrl30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember why you guys broke up and get rid of all the things that remind you of him if you can. this can include pictures and cloths etc
Oh and write an official I'm over you letter at least four pages then rip it up or burn it...I know it sounds weird but its good for closure.
2006-09-09 17:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Frogster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard. Remember all the reasons you shouldn't contact him. And remember that he is NOT contacting you. Busy yourself with other things
2006-09-09 17:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋