He works across the hall from my office. It started off w/ bike rides, dinners, then a wonderful 1st week of fun and laughter. He charmed my friends & asked me to be his girl. Being an aquarius, I said I needed time; afterall I just moved to this town & have 2 marriage proposals waiting for me back home. He was upset but agreed to give me 2 weeks. Then the bliss continued. He introduced me to his friends who were all happily married to Asian women. He did not like the fact that I am not a typical stay at home, love to cook & clean kind of girl. I work 80 hour weeks and have an executive position... the last week has been very dificult @ work and I did not call him for 2 days because I was having a nervous breakdown. When I did call him, I explained that I had a breakdown. He was supportive & agreed to meet that night. Then he broke up with me over the phone citing he is 40 & needs a girl he has more in common with. I luv him & he keeps walking by my office & says hi!
2006-09-09 10:05:48 · 20 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I don't know what to say when he walks by so I ignore him. he knows I miss him and love him because I finally told him the day he broke up with me. I want him back, what do I do? How is it possible that he could be in love with me (he told my friends just days ago) and suddenly want to be friends?
2006-09-09 10:11:05 · update #1
Just keep on doing what your doing because it sounds like right now you have enough going on in your life without the problems of this man. If it is meant to be it will. Time will tell.
2006-09-09 14:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Having been in similar situation, I think I may know a little of what is going on...I believe you are addicted to this guy. Obsessing over him maybe distracts from other issues. Also, wanting what you can't have. He may sense your desperation. In the midst of your obsession/addiction, these words may not immediately help, but you do not need this guy. You certainly do not have to put up with being treated that way. You are a powerful executive - but you are also okay as a single woman. I personally think Scorpios in general are the meanest sign of all. Why bother with someone who will not be loyal, devoted partner? You are ok the way you are. Yeah, the asian woman thing - happily married to asian women, you said in your note he doesn't like the fact you are not a typical stay at home, love to cook, clean kind of girl. I'll bet he feels intimidated by your intelligence and power, or competitive maybe. But that doesn't mean you dumb yourself down or apologize or analyze him. The focus should be on yourself what you want, not how to please him. Why is that your job? Don't change yourself for him. Live your life, accept and love yourself and if you want a relationship, there are PILES of people out there. You can't force something to work. It flows or it doesn't.
2006-09-17 05:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by wolfina wolfette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know of an Aquarious that just started dating a Scorp????????????? About 2 months ago! I wonder how long THEIRS will last? I didn't know that about how Scorpios can be cold as ice one minute and the opposite the next??? Is this true? They are both women so I don't know if the same rules apply here? But Humanolive, I DID hear that Scorpios don't like to be ignored. That MIGHT explain HIS behaviour? COnsidering all the BAD things I have heard about the Scorpios, Be happy it ended as early as it did. It could have been worse and might have gone on years or months..then you would REALLY have been devastated?
2006-09-09 14:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a scorp and say you either sent mixed signals or he thinks you are possibly lying to him.. I've had a few relationships go south as I found the woman was untruthful to me or at least I perceived them to be.
He may not like the fact that you are the workahloic either as shown by the two proposals with no ring... Figuring you may have "issues" he doesn't want in his life at this time...
I say you need a sit down talk with him and find out where you two are going. He may want to be "friends" as he wants the door to stay open for you two to get back together perhaps.. I've done that once or twice but in my case didn't work out that way.... He may be hoping you see that you are killing yourself with 80 hour weeks and to back off of it a bit and enjoy life and I think he may come around
But that's my opinion.. and I figure a few would probably say I don't know crud either...
2006-09-10 12:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by gearbox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the surface, Scorpio and Aquarius sun signs don't work out very well. Scorpios can be complex emotional creatures... being hot and passionate one day, and cold as ice the next. Aquarians are more intellectual. You might be better off with someone who has a strong air element in their charts (Libra & Gemini) or any of the fire sign group.
2006-09-09 10:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept his decision to break off and move on. I myself is a scorpio, they are strange creatures and can be complex to understand. At times, there passionate and fliritious, then there cold as ice and spiteful in a instant.
Maybe give sometime to comprend the situation and then just be there as a friend. If he is interested then he tell you in many ways.....I hope this help.
As a scorpio, I think they do handle rejection to good and like to be respected.
2006-09-09 11:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, we both have been treated in the same way by the scorpio boys. i am a capricorn though. Ok, this happened with me. I told this scorpio guy that i loved him. he without thinking told me that he wouldn't go in a relationship with me because he saw me as a friend. after that i never talked to him again. u know i was heart broken. however, after that day he started mingling with my close friends. they told me that he often asked them about me. yet i was determined not to see him again. he tried to say hi to me many times, but i just ignored him. after a few years i moved to another place. i almost forgot about him and was getting ready to be with the guy i dated during college years. then one fine morning a miracle happened. i found my scorpio boy standing in front of my house. from that day on he often visited my area. i would see him exactly at 5pm when i used to reach home from work.
as far as i think these scorpio boys sometimes do things without giving a proper thought to them. when someone gets hurt by this stupidity, they in the beginning don't understand it. but once they realize that their loved ones are hurt, they try to come into reconciliation with them. my dad is also a scorpio and i have seen that after yelling at us for something he comes back to us to ask how we are doing. then he tries to talk about the matter to make the atmosphere better.
I think you should start talking to him. he won't tell a thing to u unless u bring up the topic. thats because he is extremely embarrassed for what he has done.
2006-09-09 10:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl get over it. Scorpio men are dogs, they are selfish children of the devil. All the Scorpio men I know are this way. The last Scorpio man I dated was having an affair with a man to keep up his lifestyle to play woman. Girl chalk it up as a lost, he probably got some skeletons in his closet that would turn you into a skeleton. Do yourself a favor. Find someone else quick and make sure he is not born in Oct, Nov.
Peace
2006-09-12 05:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by dcthugbaby 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Despite what a lot of these ******* say about Scorpios, I have a Scorpio guy who has been loyal to me for 5 1/2 yrs. now. You can't judge them all. If he's 40 and wants to start a family or at least be in a committed relationship, then I'm sure he wasn't happy to hear that you're career oriented and have 2 marriage proposals waiting for you back home. That's not much reassurance. What the hell do you want a THIRD guy for? Plus the fact that you had a breakdown shows you to be mentally unstable. Concentrate on your career. You Aquarians are just dingbats who don't know what they want in life. Good that he shed you as fast as he did.
2006-09-09 10:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by pegasus_1174 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I don't think someone can help you. Relationships are personal thing and that's why only you can solve your problem. I can write a long letter full with advices but the truth is that there is not a certain formula. You have to beat your own fears.
2016-03-17 11:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋