she thinks thathimand i are too young to know about love but we have been togetjerfor 3 years, she want me to break upwith him i am 16 but i really love him he is my first boyfriend and everything i can see my self with him till the day that i die dats how much love we got for each other! (what should i do)?
2006-09-09 10:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by datpuertoricanmami08@yahoo.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There ain't nothing new about this many mother's don't like many guys! Ya gotta play it by ear! And just because you feel that way now ain't no guarantee you always will!
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/
2006-09-09 10:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe mom's right. Maybe not. Look at your age, in two years mom is a mute point. Right, wrong or indifferent be careful. The hurt could last a lifetime, however you decide. In the greater scheme of things the choice is up to you, so start thinking about how you really feel. There is nobody out here that can tell you what to do. You have to decide on your own.
2006-09-09 17:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by MAD MEL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah like P*kitty, said mother know best... and I tell you this your mother will never do anything to hurt you, she will be always there for you at all times versus your boyfriend at soon he see a better butt and have a chance you are history.
Listen to your mom be a professional and pick the right men of your dreams, just don't rush into things, and remember what is new for you, your mother and father being there a thousand times already so they can always advice you better than anyone.... since they really love you and want only the best for you things that you might don't see at the moment but you will I hope don't be to late, take advantage of their experience that! ;)
If you think he is the one you have to let him gain your mother and father trust, He have to act as a real gentleman and prove that he will be there for you and take care you, not to take advantage of you. Is all up to him to do that it will hard but he can if he really care for you.
2006-09-09 17:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Soyam I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First love is first love and you never forget. I don't know why your mom doesn't like him. Maybe she is afraid you'll get pregnant.Respect your mom, do more then what she asks of you in a respectfull manner. Show her you are maturing.Spend some special time with your mom.My parents didn't want me to get married to my boyfriend and they shipped me off to another state.I think because they wanted me to marry a doctor or lawyer.
Parents have their own agenda and you still have to respect that because they love you and support you.Show your maturity and that should have a positive influence on her.Like are you coming home at a decent hour?
2006-09-09 17:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moms r just like that my mom did the same so i snuck around and was always gettin in trouble and finghtin with her i was 12 and was with him tim i was 15 1/2 and we thought we was but in the end my mom was so right about him he aint worth nothin but if u think u and him r really in love then tell her u love him and it is possiable too love someone so much so firget what some of these peeps say just stay true u will figure it out just dont make no big mistake that will hit ur @$$ at the end just think dont get in trouble or pregnant
2006-09-09 17:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mizz,Thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what u mean cause my parents don't like the person I will. And they said that we don't know what love is really about. They don't understand that be are not baby's no more. I know how u are really feeling. Be strong don't let what u really love go fight for him no matter what. Just dont do bad things.
2006-09-09 17:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by lovelycoqueta202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter if ur mom likes him she is not u and she is not the one that is in the relationship and she would not be the one married to him, unless he is a bad kid. but becareful with that love stuff i hate seein people get hurt and stay away from sex u dont want to end up pregnant plus u are too young for that
2006-09-09 17:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Swift Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, he will wait. At 16, She has the power to keep him away, and if you have sex with him, send him to jail... Without your say so in the matter.
2006-09-09 17:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think you know about love when you still cannot form complete sentences?
2006-09-09 17:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started dating him when you were 13? Skank... Do what your mother says, you're too young to be dating.
2006-09-09 17:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Smarty Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋