I think I'm a lesbian. I entertain fantasies about myself with men on occasion, but not as often as I think about men with men or a woman with me. I have a girlfriend I want to be with until I die and I'm more attracted to women than men.
I would never want to be with a man. All my relationships with guys were complete failures, mainly because I felt odd with them. It just wasn't right.
I considered myself a bisexual, but I don't think that's right either.
So I want to know if a lesbian can be physically attracted to men. Maybe then I can stop biting my nails.
2006-09-09 09:53:54 · 26 answers · asked by drunkon80 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
One of the answers:
What a surprise!!!well as you said that you are a lesbian then you should be attracted to women than men,And if your are attracted to men,Why don't you try again to be normal and have relations with men than women.Cause i think that being homosexual is like a psychological disease and i know that all people will insult me about saying that,but if its normal why wouldn't the whole world divide into lesbians and guys and we can say goodbye to the humanity and we can put an end to the world.And don't forget that without the normal sexual relation between your parents you wouldn't have come to this world
***** you. And I'm God damn serious. There is nothing wrong with being a homosexual or a bisexual. I can't force myself to be more attracted to men to fit into your ******** stereotype. Kiss my ***, dic.kwad.
2006-09-09 11:35:26 · update #1
Honey, when the subject is human sexuality, then ANYthing is possible.
2006-09-09 10:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lesbian, so I cannot answer as a lesbian would, but I can try to help. It is human nature to react to beauty and sometimes even fantasize about things merely because of our strongly sexual nature, even if they are likely never to happen. It is no surprise that you may not only be fantasizing about other women, but men as well. I am attracted to the opposite sex as a general rule, but can definitely see the beauty that other women posses. Sometimes as a competitive sexual thing, other times as a sort of attraction. I have even fantasized about other women or an encounter with another man and women, but I in no way consider myself bisexual, much less a lesbian. I assume that some people might mistake it for that though. I am not confused about anything, I know that I like beauty, I like pleasure, and I like trying everything [at least] once. What ever happens beyond that is just fun. It is up to you to decide where you stand.
2006-09-09 10:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by sugaspice_n_smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a surprise!!!well as you said that you are a lesbian then you should be attracted to women than men,And if your are attracted to men,Why don't you try again to be normal and have relations with men than women.Cause i think that being homosexual is like a psychological disease and i know that all people will insult me about saying that,but if its normal why wouldn't the whole world divide into lesbians and guys and we can say goodbye to the humanity and we can put an end to the world.And don't forget that without the normal sexual relation between your parents you wouldn't have come to this world
2006-09-09 11:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
What is showing us a photo supposed to do? Is it suppose to determine our sexuality? I've seen physically attractive men of all races in person and in photos and they still do/did nothing for me. I've even turned down celebrity men for Women (not kidding) So I seriously doubt if looking at those photos will change anything. Sorry.
2016-03-17 11:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately. i am physically attracted to quite a few men, but would never be able to have sex with one because the sexual attraction is not there. i do not think this in any way makes me bi, even though there is an attraction there, because i will never be more than friends with a man.
2006-09-09 11:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by batman13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend let's end all this now. You are in fact bisexual. Just because you are in a loving relationship with a woman, doesnt mean you are lesbian. You are attracted to both but ONLY dating one and as a lesbian myself, I commend you for ONLY doin one and not both. You fantasize about men...should you have really been here asking this question. Ima lesbian and a man neva crosses my mine in that way even when I'm looking at one. Ask yourself this question...if you and you gf broke up would you see a man in your future. If it's yes then you are bi. Overall, I say you're bisexual. No harm in that. Just dont do both. That's when I'm angry. Too many people do that and it looks bad.
2006-09-09 10:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by jusslisten 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Everyone is so different,no 2 lesbians or bisexuals are the same so just cos you are having these feelings and thoughts dosnt make you a freak or anyone odd,just be yourself and enjoy your partner whoever it is...
2006-09-09 10:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's like maybe you just find them attractive, like straight guys can tell if a guy is attractive (although they won't admit to it) and so maybe this is just what you're experiencing don't worry bout it.
2006-09-09 09:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some women that are bi are such because they continue to blame relationship problems on men and in fact it may not always be so, women can share the blame,, but that doesnt mean you cant be with a woman and later if u meet that one man that is different...well who knows
2006-09-09 10:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sexuality is very fluid... Nothing that's happening between consenting adults is really normal or abnormal... Enjoy whatever you feel like experiencing without asking yourself too many questions...
2006-09-09 10:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Smarty Vero 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋