Would you marry someone younger, fresher, richer who was good in the sack or would you be content with someone like your present spouse? (wishing him or her no disresect).
Would you marry for love or marry someone suitable?
2006-09-09 09:51:59 · 42 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont appreciate your over-familiar insolence shelly. You have a lot to learn about resect for others
2006-09-09 11:12:46 · update #1
I think I would marry the person with whom I felt I was more compatible and this appears to be the "younger, fresher, rich & good in the sack" person. Just because you love someone doesn't guarantee you a "Happily Ever After." Your relationship will need a lot of other things such as friendship, respect, physical attraction and compatibility in order for it to last and for you to truly be happy. Evaluate both relationships (people) to see which person you can imagine yourself with ten or even twenty years from now. Life is too short to spend with someone that doesn't make you happy.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 10:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Nina N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband died, I thought I had met a few guys that I would consider marrying. Now it's been 7 years and I'm so glad I didn't marry. I have a "friend" with whom I can "play", take vacations and share our daily experiences. I was 54 when my husband died. I have never been happier than I am now at 61. Someone asked me what I do with my time now that I don't have to work any more. My answer was "anything I want to". I don't have to answer to anyone. It may sound selfish to some of you, but after 31 years of marriage, which were not that great, I feel I deserve some happiness. A lot of people jump into another marriage right away because they are too lonely or need that security. Yes, I've been lonely, but I've gotten involved in activities to keep me busy. My life is about as complete as it can be. I just hope I have enough time left to do the things I've always wanted to and couldn't because my husband wouldn't. Getting married again is an individual decision. I've chosen not to.
2006-09-09 15:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would marry my husband all over again, I love him so very much and he is a wonderful man, I married him because I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, 22 years on I still love him to his bones and still want to be with him for life, we were broke when we got married and aren't rolling in it now, but whats the point of money without the love of a good man.
2006-09-09 15:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea of marriage makes one want to believe that it could be wonderful, but then when you do, reality sets in. There are bills to be paid, dirty clothes to wash, meals to be cooked, kids to take care of, especially step kids, decisions to be made and compromises. The honeymoon is over before you know it and prince charming usually turns into a toad. If I ever married again, I would definitely have a prenupt.
2006-09-09 10:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say Shelly is insolent & showing no respect for others but when you ask a question like this then you are not always going to like the answers.
Personally, I think your question shows a lack of respect.
2006-09-09 21:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At This point I would have to say no. I've been separated for the last 2 years. Maybe if i met someone that i truly loved as much as my soon to be ex-husband. Maybe I'd think about taking the walk down that isle again.
2006-09-09 10:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely marry someone who was better in bed, not as selfish. I don't think the age would make a difference. I would not pick someone like my current husband. I would definitely marry for love but..... I would also marrying someone who had a stable career, no struggling in life. No habits, no ex baggage, no financial problems. And definitely knowledgeable in bed.
2006-09-09 10:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd marry again and again and again. I would like to up the meter on the sex quotient, though. Quality is awesome. Quantity has proven to be very suck-worthy. I married someone very suitable whom I love very very much. We are a match made in heaven. Heaven on a slow sex day.
2006-09-09 14:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first marriage was for love, but, he loved drugs, other women and alcohol more than me!!!
I swore never to marry again....until....Drum role please.... Tony!
He's now my second husband and hopefully my last, he made me believe in love again, even came from a suitable work orientated back ground ( aka has a job!!). He has a son from a previous relationship, good kid, not so easy at first,( the adjusting to the changes) but, we were all new to it.
He is compassionate, great lover, not only sexually either!! And, is older and more mature, ready for a relationship, not worried about the next party.
So, I choose Love, not money or status in the community. I will never regret it, better to have loved twice and lost than to of never loved at all!!!!
2006-09-09 10:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Torri * 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Such a good question. Do you think you can really know in advance??
I would marry for love if I found it. I would want someone, spontaneous, fun (and fun changes with age) less of a workaholic. More of a helpmate. And of course "being great in the sack" can't hurt..
Love the question!!!
2006-09-09 10:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋