I am in love with this guy HELP?

Question

this guy is cute,smart,kind,and hot I meet him before school we flirted alot then when school started he became popular and every 1 wants him he rally says hi and i see him at football practice (water girl) hes not mean to me i can't get over him what 2 do

Answer 1

This is a tough one for you, I would imagine! Your HEART is torn, right? You REALLY want to be involved with this guy, and YOU like him (is that an understatement or what?); but the question is, does HE like you? You don't wanna appear "easy", but you don't wanna be "distant" either, right? So, basically, you feel like you're "between a rock and a hard place". NEVER an easy situation to be in! Why must relationships be SO COMPLICATED? Well, at least SOMETIMES they are! But nothing worthwhile is easy! I don't believe it's proper for the girl to approach the guy FIRST. The guy should lead! But what to do if he's not "taking the lead"? Well, I would say just BE YOURSELF. Be kind and sweet and nice. Not phonie or "putting on a show", but do your best to make yourself VALUABLE in his sight! I don't mean FLIRTATIOUS, certainly not WHORISH! Really, BE A LADY! Conduct yourself WISELY!Be a "virtuous woman". And if he's a really GOOD man, he SHOULD "sit up and take notice". But even then, he STILL may not be interested! Everybody's gotta make their own choices! And you sure can't force him to like you! And think about this: you're probably INFATUATED with him! There's a strong PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION there inside you for him! Just don't set yourself up with FALSE EXPECTATIONS, only to have them DASHED TO PIECES if you find out he's involved with "someone else". I'm not saying that WILL happen, but we both know that DOES occur! Like I said, the COMPLEXITIES of male-female relationships! One thing I might suggest, other than having a mutual friend or aquaintence ASK HIM what he thinks of YOU, is to maybe leave him a few well placed NOTES at school. Maybe with some of his football equipment when he's not looking, since you DO have access to that! You could something like, "Hey! just wanted you to know I think you're as great guy!" OR, "Wow! You're really cute!" Etc. The MAIN thing I would say to you though is PRAY AND SEEK GOD'S WILL ABOUT ALL THIS! The most important thing to know is that you have GOD'S approval on this! God bless you!

Answer 2

Tell him how you feel. For some reason school girls always have this thing about not coming out with what they mean. Instead they'll dance around issues and basically drive guys insane with head games till they hit 25.

Answer 3

be very honest to yurself and ask yourself what is more important for you, yuor selfesteem or your love, that love which ignores you and does not respect you at all. you will definetly get your answer. and at the end i shud say in love respect has to be there for the partner from both sides which is not here and also decide it whether it is really a love or lust because of his qualities.

Answer 4

you got to ask yourself one question, do you like him because of his qualities or because everybody else likes him. Whatever the answer will be i still dont' think you have a chance w/ him. He is way too stuck up now and he has a lot of choices, i suggest you go on.

Answer 5

i know how u feel had a crush on this guy and never told him now he moved away and in ever saw him again, so what i am trying to tell u is take the chance cause if u don't you will regret

Answer 6

well you fall in love more than once in your life you would get over him. it can be in 1 month 2 1 year but for now tell him how you feel.. guys like it when you tell them in their faces

Answer 7

Continue to be a friend to him if something happens let it happen,
if not that's ok you'll always have him as a friend,-

Answer 8

There's plenty of fish in the sea. If he's not interested in you...move on!

Answer 9

u should tell one of ur friends to ask him if he likes u

Answer 10

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