I love coffee and I love to go out for coffee with my husband. But he doesn't care that much for coffee so chooses not to go. Then later on when you go to get in the car you find 2 empty coffee cups. How would you feel??? For sure he is not cheating. But it is something that I love to do. Why would he drink with someone else but not with me?
2006-09-09 09:25:31 · 28 answers · asked by meeeohmyyyy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds very suspicious. I would go for my coffee while thinking about my discovery. When I get home ask questions in a very calmly. Boy would he be strewn with questions. I would let him know how hurt I was.
2006-09-09 10:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a true mystery. My ex used to do that all the time. I finally found out that he just wanted to drink without me although I liked to drink coffee with him. I would ask him why are there two coffee cups in the car and why he went without you. Usually if you nonchalantly ask him then things should be fine and he will tell you what is going on.
2006-09-09 16:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by gidgetismyfriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have been tired and drank coffee so he wouldn't fall asleep while he was driving. This seems like something that you should just TALK to him about. I'm sure he's not trying to hurt you by drinking coffee with someone else and not with you.
2006-09-09 16:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by diskkidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the other personbought him coffee without asking if he liked it and he drank it out of obligation
or maybe the other person drank both cups I think getting upset or concerned over coffee is a bit silly really though how about get made cause he did not clean up after himself or something worth the worry
2006-09-09 16:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have had a buddy or two in his car, that drinks coffee, and they may have had the cups and your hubby may not even have been drinking coffee with them.
Or, it may have been a buddy that had him stop for coffee, and to be polite, he got one too, because the buddy paid for it, and he didnt want to be antisocial.
Many possibilities, and probabilities, so, dont condem the man, and just ask him! He will be upfront about a cup of coffee :)
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-09-09 16:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i would ask him and see what he says, I would say i would feel annoyed because if he doesnt go to drink coffee with you why like you say has he got cups in his car. If he was cheating i dont think he would leave it in the car for you to find. Why didnt you ask him when you found them in the car. Let me knoe what he says it sounds very interesting,
2006-09-09 16:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was with someone from work, or a friend. Maybe it was a business meeting. Maybe he had two other friends in the car, or maybe someone else drove the car. Not only girls like coffee.
2006-09-09 16:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Amilucky0707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about what is with the coffee cups and either he will explain or he won't explain. If he doesn't explain, move to Plan B: suspect some kids hi-jacked your car.
2006-09-09 16:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that coffee was in them? Not hot chocolate or something? Maybe he's trying to learn to like coffee.
2006-09-09 16:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl get some therapy, let me geuss your big problem is that poor idiot you married pays to much attention to you and makes to much money ? So he had a cup of coffed with someone else? whooooppppppeeeee!!!!!
welcome to america, before all the other women on here beat me to it... divorce that sucker, he is a pig.
P.S. you need to spend more time being thankful for what you got.
2006-09-09 16:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by 57chevy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋