Sometimes he makes me crazy, like he is just one of my three kids.
2006-09-09 09:18:58 · 18 answers · asked by michtb3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been there too.. I know how that feels like, the only thing I could advice you that has worked so far for me is to have my own time and space away from him, (just for a while though)
having time for yourself can help you to understand that you need him too and that sometimes we aren't perfect, remember the reason for why you married him. And Be patient.
Remember what you said (if you got married in a church) in good times and in bad times. for rich or for poor, and so on..
I hope this little tip helps you. Good luck to you!
Sincerely, Laura :-)
2006-09-09 09:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by moon light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This wont be the best answer im sure BUT i feel the same way you do. I have recently come to the conclusion that men WILL NEVER grow up. You just have to take their nature...and go with it. Remember why you fell in love with them in the first place....and not take yourself so seriously. I could say a million other things but this pretty much sums it up....they dont change..
Divorce isnt the best option when love is involved...their are bad days and good days...and thats why marriage is hard work. Its a shame we dont realize it until after we are already married.
2006-09-09 16:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by sarah t 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, because it makes me look like a schmuck...and maybe I am, but the only way my wife can get me to act responsibly and be honest is to threaten to divorce me. I'm scared ****less of being alone. Most men are...but they won't admit it. I won't admit to her! Just try that, but be prepared for him to say "Okay!" and walk out...at least until he finds out how much dough he's gonna have to shell out for alimony, child support and TWO living spaces!
BTW, can you be specific about WHY you think your husband's like a kid? My wife says that, but my kid's really mature! If I'm a kid, then he must be like, 100 yrs old! Man...I'm so F**KED up!
2006-09-09 16:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by RandomGonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling him @ that moment you need a little bit more then what he is offering. You both need to be able to communicate with one another and respect each others needs.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 16:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a problem. Guys just like to play. A drunk, a gambler, an abuser...THAT'S a problem. a guy with a sense of humor - that's wonderful. A guy who leaves messes around the house like a kid - that just means he's comfortable and happy. Trust me, if you keep bitching about it. You'll miss those messes when he's gone.
2006-09-09 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by shomechely 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you just deal with him you married him for better or worse and at the point where he is driving you crazy that might be at it's worsts but look at it another way if he were to pass away you'd want him at his best or his worst so just laugh it off and enjoy the time that you have together
2006-09-09 16:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Libra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All this husband bashing, most women forget how they behave towards their husbands, childish, mean, and selfish is a good start. I bet he thinks your a stick in the mud.
2006-09-09 18:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy, I 'm Crazy for feeling so lonely
I'm Crazy for crying and Crazy for tryin and I'm Crazy for loving you.
2006-09-09 16:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what we do coz everybody is driving everybody's crazy.. but as long as you still can be honest and talk to him without blaming each others, that's good enough!.. one more.. Just hang in there :-) good luck!
2006-09-09 16:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by Nadia Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up. Your acting childish and immature. And, that you already have 3 children. Be firm with him, that way he gets the big picture.
2006-09-09 16:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by 2cute4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋