i do love him and he says he loves me, he calls my son his knowin its not his. i would die for him but i don't know if we should rush into havin a baby what should i do?
2006-09-09 09:08:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You crazy no way. How old are you .
2006-09-09 09:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by jodeefla1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you haven't been together all that long and statistically speaking, you are probably headed for a divorce in the future. However, there are couples who beat the odds and stay together, despite a short courtship. I don't know who came up with these crazy rules of how long you are supposed to date someone before you get married. You should talk about what he's asking because marriage and another baby may put stress on your relationship that neither of you are ready for. Plus you need to know if he will be able to support you and a new family when you are on maternity leave. I'm assuming you are working here. Ask him why he wants all of this so soon? If you are not ready for all of this, tell him. If he loves you enough, he will wait. Also, you may want to look at how this lifechange would affect other areas of your life such as school, travel etc..
2006-09-09 16:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get pregnant too quickly. You already have a child. Take time to get married, have a honeymoon, and maybe even try on the Honeymoon. You have only been together six months, thats not even long enough to have a baby. Maybe you should start there and then move further into the relationship.
2006-09-09 16:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by dnelak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its too early if too u are in love I'm actually going through the exact thing me and my guy met at the same time he wants to marry me and have a baby this would be our first so thats there the difference I really love him and his done things that no other guy has done before he propose to me already I want to get marry first to be on the safe side but good luck I wish us the best plus I'm 25 so I know I'm ready to settle down I don't know your age but if you both really truely love each other it will work
2006-09-09 16:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan it out. That will buy you both time to sort out how will you guys make it. Don't rush. If all of the questions are answered in your mind, check in with a counselor or minister you trust to see if you left any stone unturned.
It is doable, and I know because I met someone, short engagement, happiliy married for eight years now.
2006-09-09 16:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure then you shouldn't marry him and you should definitely not have his baby. 6 months is not a very long time to know someone and to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with him. If he truly loves you then he'll wait and all three of you will be happier.
2006-09-09 17:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait in my opinion, if im correct you guys been together for about 6 months and i dont think thats a long enough time to start thinking about having a child with someone...But its really up to you, so i wish you the best of luck!!!
2006-09-09 16:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by VaLeRieZ_MaMii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know what you want then keep it! My husband and i were only together four months before i got pregnant with our daughter and we were already talking about getting married...and we got married when i was about 5 months pregnant...and having a wonderful life! I would say that if you trully love him and you want a child then go for it!
2006-09-09 16:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready for another child right now then just tell him you aren't ready for that. If you aren't ready to get married to him then talk to him about it. My fiancee asked me to marry him after being together for 2 weeks. We have been together 11 months as of Monday the 11th of this month. We are getting married next month.
2006-09-09 17:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by dolphin_lover692001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you are on here asking us it tells me that you have doubts about this, so you're obviously not ready to commit to marriage. Tell him you want to wait, maybe suggest a long engagement, spend more time with him.
Good luck in the future!
2006-09-09 16:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking on here whether you should be pregnant and whether to marry him what do you think sensinble people are going to say?If u have doubts now how do you think you'll feel say a year or so from now?
2006-09-10 10:09:18 · answer #11 · answered by melliesinclair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋