Ive been going out with him for a year and a half and we've gotten though alot to be together.
his friend anne broke up with her fiance a little bit ago, and i can understand rebounding but...
she asked him out twice now and its not getting though her head that he is happy with me.
last night she tryed again and my boyfrind jim got upset and left to come see me.
when he came back she was found by his roomate had called the ambulence because she tryed to od and she cut her self in my boyfriends and his roomates bathroom.
... i dont know where i stand with all of this. on one had i sympothise.. but on the other i cant stand the b*tch.
2006-09-09 09:06:50 · 8 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She left her fiance for your boyfriend....that sucks. Just don't do anything about it. You are very lucky to have a boyfriend so loyal and with good morals because he turned down his own friend because he loves you. If he can handle it on his own, then you can just stand by his side and support him. Don't hate his friend, but you don't have to like to her either. All in all, don't get involved in it unless someone ends up pulling you into the conflict.
2006-09-09 09:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's one thing to go for him for comfort *in a platonic way of course* but it's another thing for her to go after him like a dog on steak. I honestly don't think I'd be all that sympathetic if I were in your shoes. It was her decision to break up with her fiance, it was her decision to act like a whore and go after your boyfriend, it was her own decision to O.D. It's sad that she's going through all this, she definitely needs therapy. Offer her the number to a good shrink and tell her to stay the hell away from your boyfriend. After all, he chose you and not her.
2006-09-09 16:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy_Fir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that girl needs help. She must be down and out about her last relationship. And, is trying to get your man's sympathy. Don't let that happen. You and your man need to sit down and break it down to her. That you guys are involved and if she keeps trying to push up on him, then the friendship no longer will exist. For the mean time, your boyfriend shouldn't be hanging out with her. Obviously she is trying to break you guys up. And, keep him for herself.
2006-09-09 16:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by 2cute4u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she needs a friend and moral support then thats all good. But she has crossed the line and be thankful your b/f did the right thing.
But he needs to put that friendship on hold until his friend gets her sh*t together. You got a good man....you need to take steps to protect your interests.
Just my thoughts.....
2006-09-09 16:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may try to fix her relationship with her ex fiance, or try to find her a new boyfriend.
2006-09-09 16:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's about time your bf lose this "friend" of his for good. U and your boyfriend are not responsible for what she does to herself. She needs professional help.
2006-09-09 16:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is grounds for a asss kickin go put her in check now
2006-09-09 16:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pssh wat a ***** tell her to back off
2006-09-09 16:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋