Ive been going out with him for a year and a half and we've gotten though alot to be together.
his friend anne broke up with her fiance a little bit ago, and i can understand rebounding but...
she asked him out twice now and its not getting though her head that he is happy with me.
last night she tryed again and my boyfrind jim got upset and left to come see me.
when he came back she was found by his roomate had called the ambulence because she tryed to od and she cut her self in my boyfriends and his roomates bathroom.
... i dont know where i stand with all of this. on one had i sympothise.. but on the other i cant stand the b*tch.
2006-09-09 09:06:12 · 4 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he's super loyal to you, so you've gotten nothing to worry about on his end. She needs helps. She's obviously emotionally disturbed. You all might want to talk to her about getting some sort of intervention. If she's not willing, you can't let her drag you guys down with her. She's not girlfriend material to anyone in the state she's in.
2006-09-09 13:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is too bad that she cut herself, but don't put that stress on your shoulders because she is the one with obviously with mental issues. I'm worried about your b/f though. He might feel bad for her and might agree to see/talk to her again. He should avoid her at all costs because keeping in contact with her, will just make things worst between the two of you. And if he keeps talking to her, then she will get the idea that maybe he's still interested. After this incident, have him cut all ties with her immediately.
2006-09-09 16:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i'd be feeling the same you are right now..
i say talk to her personally. avoid arguing though. tell her flat out, yes, he's MY boyfriend, and we're happy. let her know that you guys went through what normal couples don't and thats special for both of you. tell her you understand, but to not try and get with your boyfriend because that'd be selfish of her, after knowing how much it hurts.
and the stuff she does (cuttin herself..etc) is something NO guy likes, because it shows how low she can get. men are attracted to girls like you. so i dont think you should be afraid of losing him at all, cause he's not leaving you. i know that you might not be thinking that, but you may have that insecurity. you shouldnt.
2006-09-09 16:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must not be afraid to lose him...its a test of ur friendship to him
i think ur bf knows she is being stupid and u r on the safe side
2006-09-09 16:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by globe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋