2006-09-09 09:00:57 · 19 answers · asked by blackkisses 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
masturbation is a normal, healthy bodily activity. every male does it or they lie about not doing it. you shouldn't feel any quilt about performing the act. furthermore, don't stop! why would you want to omit such a pleasurable activity from your life.
the only way in which masturbation can become harmful is if you use it as a sexual outlet excluding normal, healthy sex with a partner.
asking someone to stop masturbating is like asking someone to stop having sex. no way to stop because it's a natural desire and preoccupation. so, don't fight the temptation to pleasure yourself. don't punish yourself with unnecessary guilt. guilty for enjoying your body? stop the worry and go w/ the masturbation.
Hav fun!
2006-09-09 09:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me take a moment to assure you that you are okay, that you have done nothing wrong and that masturbation is okay. Masturbation is normal and in fact is good for your reproductive system, it also helps to keep your prostate healthy and the more you ejaculate as a young man the better it will be when you are old. Masturbation relives stress, it helps to control those male sexual urges, it helps you to control your sexual arousal so you can go through the day normal. It is convenient and available when ever we need it and it is the safest sex you can have. You will not get any STD's and you will not get anyone pregnant. Also, you need to realize in spite of what your church says that masturbation is not mentioned in the bible in either the old or new testament. So it is not a sin. When you ejaculate your body releases endophrines into your system that help relaxe you and make you want to be calm and quite. One of the affects of those hormones is to also cause a man to feel guilt. You are okay, there are no harmful side affects of masturbation. When you start courting and find a woman you want to be with you can either stop or cut back and you will perform perfectly fine. You are not hurting yourself in anyway and you should simply use this form of private sex to help you maintain a safe and healthy sex life. I assure you in the same manner and intensity that I assured my grandchildren. You are okay. Enjoy your manhood and have a safe sex life.
2006-09-09 12:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started at the age of 12 and at your age i was doing it 6 times in a day. What is your record, mine is 14 times in a day.
2006-09-09 09:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be guilty or feel regret, millions of people do it 24/7.. all day! some a couple o times a day..
2006-09-09 09:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T FRET, You can stop! get the book, "Every Young Mans Battle, by stephen arterburn because it talks so much about what your going through and ways to eliminate it. its going to be a battle your whole life but its worth it in the end. make sure to read it all the way through though.
2006-09-09 12:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by justtryingtolive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody masturbates. Except for the guys who lie. Just get yourself into a comfortable space, and have a routine for how you get back to your daily routine right afterwards, rather than dwelling on it!
2006-09-09 09:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not have to regret it and it is not a bad thing it is natural and a way to relieve tension with out subjecting yourself to sexually transmitted disease pregnancy that you are not ready for
just keep it private and feel good knowing that everyone does it
2006-09-09 09:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad after because your testosterone drops after you ejaculate. Your sex desire is temporarily a lot lower than when you wacked. You satisfied that urge. I dont know about your morals, though
2006-09-09 09:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by S--slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you troubling anybody? If so, ask. Otherwise continue since
I would be worried if did not feel good because it is perfectly
normal.
2006-09-09 09:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural but doing it once a week is healthful.too much may weaken the body especially if you dont have proper vitamin-minerals intake.
2006-09-09 16:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by aqruipnos888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋