i'm not fat i'm fit there's just an 8 yr. age diference
2006-09-09 08:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be that he just suffers from lack of desire resulting from personal habits, health reasons or stress. Some men, as they get older, just loose interest in sex, others find it even more appealing.
Whether he is having an affair or not is a key question. You should evaluate other behaviors (coming home late, unusual financial expenditures, smell of sex on his clothing, etc.). Loss of interest is a symptom of greater problems. You may need some relationship counseling. Good luck
2006-09-09 08:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lost M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be a huge amount of reasons for something like this so just be very comforting and supportive when you ask him about it. Stress at work, lack of sleep, diet, nutrition, and exercise, plus certain medications will kill his sex drive. If he is on any meds get the names and drop by the local pharmacy to see what the side effects are. Proscar, propecia, avodart, (just to name a few) will kill his sex drive quick fast and in a hurry. If you do not notice any of the other signs of cheating then I would personally rule it out unless of course he is making strange phone calls and is always staying late at work etc. Good luck.
2006-09-09 09:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by SL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before jumping to conclusions he's cheating, why not look at more "innocent" causes for his lack of interest in sex. Is he stressed out at work? At home? Does he have medical problems? Is he depressed about something u don't know about yet? Better yet, start communicating with him to get to the bottom of it.
The only time u should suspect he's cheating is if you're also seeing other signs aside from his lack of interest in sex.
2006-09-09 09:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Is he on medication?
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Could also be addicted to porn. I hear that one of the side-effects is that these men can no longer find "real" women attractive, if they're not barbie-shaped with fake nails, hair and boobs and wearing 6-inch patent white pumps to bed! Plus these "ladies" don't require romancing.
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2006-09-09 09:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not, start acting that you dont want sex dont let him touch you always give lame and I mean lame exusuces why you dont want sex ,it might get hes attition also maybe lost his sex drive ,
tell him to see a doctor, no sex is a resonable ground for a divorce
2006-09-09 09:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be dogging, why not see if hes on the site below and if he is get your own back
2006-09-09 08:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probly is cheating
what u need is a fit 17yo
2006-09-09 08:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by sexyguyno16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is to tired for sex and not giving u attention neglecting u and ur needs most likely he is cheatng
2006-09-09 12:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant say, may be over worked also
2006-09-09 08:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by narendirsingh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude or insensitive, but Perhaps your big, sloppy, smelly, post-maternal vagina simply doesn't interest him anymore.
2006-09-09 09:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋