he said he cant keep an erection long enough for me to *** unless he has a w*nk hours before sex at i thought there was other ways as well to stop yourself cumming early, im not a prude id willingly do it for him hours b4 if it ment hed satisfy me later he said that all men have to do this in order to control it.is ther any ways he could controll cumming without the seedy tommy tank in bogs??
2006-09-09 08:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he just wants a good ole jerk in loos and thats best xcuse he could *** up with
2006-09-10 06:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it works for him then thats fine. But you doing it for him is a great idea that would take the seediness out of it completely. a lot of men dont last long the first time but as me and my girl have found out it lasts longer each time you have sex so a quicke at the start of the day/night is the same as him knocking one out in the boggs in my opinion only a lot more enjoyable.
2006-09-09 09:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men have this problem. It's called 'premature ejaculation' and it means cumming too soon. He can learn to control it by will power if he has any, or by thinking of other things during sex. If he can't control it, then by cumming a few hours earlier, he will last longer during sex. He can either do this to himself, or you can do it for him. Either way amounts to the same effect.
2006-09-09 08:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand his problem. Its a compliment to you probably as he finds you an extreme turn on hence he finds it hard to control c*mming whilst having sex with you. either that or he's just a light weight!!! :)
he probably cant have sex with you and c*m, and then continue on and pleasure you afterwards as it can be hard to get another erection after just ejaculating. so overall i think he is being v.considerate towards you, especially as for a man it is never as good having sex (having had sex ealrier and used up the majority of his semen) as it is to have it with a larger gap in between. hope this helps. soz maybe a bit graphic. but overall i would say he is being very considerate. Either that or he has high sex drive and just uses that as a good excuse!!!.
2006-09-09 08:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by @@@Marty@@@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It better for a man to have a good **** in a good relationship.
At least he not two timing you, only in the mind while he giving himself a hand job. He got to be truthful that he is doing it, if you were to ask him. A good **** sometimes better than making love to a woman. I best some woman say the same thing too.
2006-09-09 10:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by pal6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey, If he loved you enough he could go down on you and eat y9ou out and make you *** that way. Do you like him to do oral sex on you?????? That way you get satisfied also
2006-09-09 09:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pelvic floor exercises work wonders with my man, tell him to pull in as if he's dying for a wee, hold it for 10-15 secs and release. Do it about 10 times before sex, if your man is like mine sex will last for hours its great!!!!!
2006-09-10 00:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by emzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been told that the famous historic lovers such Casanova were expert at oral sex. Tell him to get some practise at that and he wont need to worry
2006-09-09 08:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 17:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you help him by doing the wanking youself - takes away the need for secrecy and makes it part of your sex life
2006-09-09 08:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by voluptuous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋