this is a question mostly for guys, but if girls have some tips.. pleasee tell me lol..
what are ways to keep it under control when we're in arguments or name calling...?
2006-09-09 08:47:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One way to keep it under control is to NOT resort to name calling. Name calling is ONLY hurtful, and does not have any place in an argument. The other way to control it is to discuss the issue of arguing when youre both calm. Agree together to certain rules.
Example:
1. No name calling. If someone uses a name during an argument, the other person leaves and the argument ends until BOTH people are willing to start again.
2. Each person takes turns making his point, and the other person says NOTHING until the first person is FINISHED with his/her point.
3. No yelling! As soon as yelling starts, the argument ends and there is silence until BOTH people are willing to start again without yelling.
4. LISTEN to each other.
5. ALWAYS obey the rules. If you break them, the argument ENDS until both people agree to start again.
2006-09-09 09:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are ways to keep it under control when we're in arguments or name calling...?
name calling, or arguments (heated).
There should be respect on both sides not criticism or animosity.
I say look for a better gentleman that can TALK to you instead of put you down.
2006-09-09 08:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take low blows at one another. I know when two people that close to each other seem to know how to push buttons and hit touchy situations. You can cool the fight by saying that you don't want to talk to each other like that, and to try again once both of your minds are clear and there isn't that built up emotional stress.
2006-09-09 08:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 is actual an outstanding variety. needless to say this is fake. What a delusion you have on your head nonetheless. replace: i think of you're telling the incorrect individual to shove it someplace. possibly tell that on your meant husbands.
2016-11-06 23:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about avoiding fights in the first place?
2006-09-09 08:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, avoid the arguement, if not the keep it calm and at a nice tone and don't start personal atteacks, keep it on the subject at hand
2006-09-09 08:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you want to fight with him?is it a sex thing for you?does it turn you on? what?are you wanting to fight with him so that you can make up with him?I just don't understand this question.scary if you ask me.grow up dear.
2006-09-09 08:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Dr. Phil's books - he talks about "fighting fair" - good stuff.
2006-09-09 08:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Eric H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's this simple....give him your opinion...tell him it is the way it is and if he don't like it...he knows where the door is :)
2006-09-09 08:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to the topic
2006-09-09 08:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋