2006-09-09 08:45:16 · 33 answers · asked by nathan654845 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Depends who your married to and if you BOTH are willing to work at it.
2006-09-09 08:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by angelcake 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want it to. You can't just expect that one day your marriage will suddenly become really really great. Think about the meaning of marriage: We do it because we want to ensure that everyone knows our spouse is ours and that we have found true love. That should be enough for a lifetime of a marriage. But yeah if you're losing interest in your spouse, go to counselling, or find some way to spice up your life, maybe swinging or different "positions"? But i do not suggest swinging as it might ruin your relationship.. but after a while if you find that you're still not interested in your spouse..then no your marriage will not get beter and unfortuately you will have to go through the marriage cycle all over again..but if you love your spouse..then yes..one day i gues it will be better after you're used to it and you are stable with money and a house and children.
2006-09-09 08:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Besch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that marriage is never "easy." It's hard to live with anyone 24/7 (even if they're gone a lot, you still have to deal with having that person in your life.) But, for me, there are benefits of companionship, love, and commitment that far outweigh the costs.
From my experience, there are both good times and bad times. So, there are times when things are difficult and hopefully you will both work on it and it will get better and there are other times when things are perfect and you couldn't ask for anything more.
2006-09-09 08:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by bzbsme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a marriage there are always going to be good days and bad days. A strong couple will support one another during the bad times, and share the fun of the good times. It is a partnership, and both people have to work at keeping it going smoothly. If it's not working, it may be worth seeking 'couples counselling' - try your local Citizens' Advice Bureau for details. Good luck - I hope things work out for you.
2006-09-09 08:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by mad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the best thing that ever happened to me, and believe me, I certainly shopped around for the best husband.
We have our share of bad days, when the world seems to be conspiring against us, but that's to be expected in any relationship.
We know we did the right thing by marrying each other, and have never once regretted it. We never actually fight with each other, just with circumstances surrounding us.
I guess that's one reason why it keeps getting better for us - we're so compatible and we both know that we truly love each other and our 3 kids.
2006-09-09 09:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by morgaenwyld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its our 22ND anniversary in November and all I can say is marriage really does get better, you have to work at it and always be there for each other, sit and talk, never take each other for granted and still buy those daft little pressies for each other just for a joke and just to show you still care and love her.
2006-09-09 09:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you married the right person.
With the right partner you feel supported and have an ally for life. Occasional rows are normal.
If your being hurt or emotionally abused it won t get any better!
If it hurts its not love!
And its not your fault either!
2006-09-09 09:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nicola H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem???? U need 2 B a bit more specific!! U give
no information on anything that is wrong with U're marriage.
2006-09-09 08:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by MILKSHAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I'm not married yet! but the people around me that have got married it seems like it gets worse! don't get stuck in a relationship with no meaning just enjoy your self! only luck people find love and they are the ones that make marriage work!
2006-09-09 08:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 20th anniversary is next week and it gets better every day. yes, there are some not so good times, but that is a part of the growth process. work hard and don't give up on each other.
2006-09-09 08:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by one hot mamma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when the busyness of life can truly be set aside and the married couple can act like a couple of love struck kids again.
http://www.great-marriage-retreats.com/
2006-09-09 08:51:28 · answer #11 · answered by rapturefuture 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋