i am 16 and just found out i am pregnant my bf does not believe me because i never had a period. he told me he wants nothing to do with me and i am a stupid whore and i must have lied to him. i did not lie though my doctor told me i probbly ovulated for the first time the week i had sex and that the bron spotting i had was not my first period but implantation bleeding. He is 18 turning 19 next week what can i do to prove it too him that i am pregnant. i already showed him the pregnancy test.?i am used to looking to him for guidance!
2006-09-09 08:44:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i lost my viginity to this guy and he has been my one and only and i love him.
2006-09-09 08:46:49 · update #1
no i have not yet told my parents my bf made me promise not too.
2006-09-09 08:49:10 · update #2
no i have not yet told my parents my bf made me promise not too.
2006-09-09 08:49:15 · update #3
Have him go to the Dr with you!
2006-09-09 08:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by JS 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Obviously, the two of you are too young to be having sex. You should not be having unprotected sex with any guy, no matter what age you are; and how much you love him. At your age, he is legally a rapist.......He can and should go to jail. He is an adult, having sex with a minor. You are not legally able to give consent to anyone to have sex with you. You had better tell your parents immediately, the doctor may be obligated, by law; to notify them of your pregnancy. If he is calling you names like whore....he (the supposed boyfriend...rapist) obviously was just using you for sex, and probably bragged to all his mindless, brainless, boys who are pretending to be men friends that he had sex with a virgin. You cannot prove to him that you are pregnant with his child until you are further along in the pregnancy, when you can have a DNA test done. You will have to talk to your doctor about that. You are looking to an idiot male who is thinking with his little head, and not his brain for guidance. You need to be looking to your parents for guidance, not an idiot male who doesn't care about you enough to make sure he uses a condom every time he has sex with anyone. I hope you are not believing that he was a virgin when you had sex. ??? Not. Since you had unprotected sex with him, you could end up with an STD or HIV/Aids. If you decide to have this baby, you need to be on birth control as soon as you can be put on it after the baby's birth. Do not have sex again, without birth control for you and condoms for him....and not the goof you are pregnant by now. Sorry to be so harsh, but this is the reality of life. Good luck and tell your parents, they are responsible for you not the nearly 19 yr old who is acting like an idiot. You can have him provide child support until your child is eighteen years old, you can use the DNA test in court to prove his paternity.
2006-09-09 16:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly look to your parents for the guidance you need. To convince him, take him to the doc with you. Even if you produce an ultrasound picture, it sounds like he would still discredit it. When you start showing-and eventually give birth, that will be a really big indicator if he still doesn't give in.
If he abandons you, you still have the right to seek child support. He CAN ask for a DNA test, which from the sounds of it will confirm him as the father, and then he not only can't deny it anymore, but will be forfeiting part of his earnings to you for the next 18 years.
Good luck. Stay strong.
2006-09-09 15:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by desiderio 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should not be with someone who calls you a stupid whore. He does not love you. Get help from your parents and focus on your new baby and taking care of the two of you. Get a lawyer to make sure you will be getting money for your child from the baby's dad. He's the last thing you need right now...
2006-09-09 15:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by sleon1123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is wait till the baby is born and then have a paternity test done to prove he is the dad or you can be smart *** and have him arrested because he is an adult and slept with a minor which is staturtory rape which can get him a nifty jail sentence.
Check out justmommies.com and go to the teen pregnancy forum or the teen mommies forum, they are really nice thier and will help you threw your pregnancy.
2006-09-09 15:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay first of all dump the loser. Confide in a family member that you trust that will help you break the news to your parents. Once you've broken the news to your parents, tell them how this clown is trying to skip out on you.....They'll know what to do with his ***....
And Congratulations....You really are young , but with the support of your family it can still turn out to be a positive experience.
2006-09-09 16:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is financially liable for the child up to the child's 18th birthday and in some states biodad could be a sexual offender if 18 is the age for legal consent to intercourse. He sounds like he is in denial or lacks any sense of responsibility. Your parents need to know what is going on NOW and bf's parents need to know or if he is on his own the state may be notifying him of his legal responsibility. Time for him on any event to grow up.
2006-09-09 15:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rico E Suave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First tell your parents... this guy is scum!!! The young man wants time to get away from you as he can be arrested for a criminal act and have to register as a sexual predator everywhere he goes. DNA testing will prove who's lying in the end about who's the daddy.
2006-09-09 15:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, give him a little bit of time. I know it is at a time when you need him emotionally, but give him a few days. If he doesn't come to terms with the fact that he has a responsibility now, then you'll have to take him to court. But, first things first, tell your parents!!! They are gonna find out anyway, they would probably appreciate it if you were forthcoming with them.
2006-09-09 15:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awe poor baby but thats what boyz do they have sex with u then leave no one told u? and he's bout to turn 19 do ur parents know u date an 18 year old. Well me if i would get revenge and call rape charges since he said he wants nuthing 2 do with u. well whateva u do i hope u think it through and get guidance from another source.
2006-09-09 15:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by confused 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have the doctor call him. You need someone right now to help you through this, as you are very young to have a baby. No offense but he sounds like a real jerk and you are probably better off without him.
2006-09-09 15:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋