Because I trusted my stepdad and then he took advantage of me and raped me and now I find it hard to trust or talk to anybody
2006-09-09 08:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I do live with my step dad and mom and i tried to tell my mom but she doesnt believe me i think she is on drugs and my counselors are trying to get me help.
2006-09-09 09:02:44 · update #1
yes all the time
2006-09-11 13:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by kat_cat_dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not deserve what is happening and it's not your fault.
I've read your other questions too and you need to get out of that situation. You say your counsellors are trying to help. If your still there - they aren't trying hard enough.
Is there an adult in your life that you trust? Maybe the mom of a friend, a special aunt, teacher, guidance counsellor or minister. Find someone who will listen to you and provide you with a safe and caring home.
2006-09-12 15:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by mom of Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust in your mother or father and tell them that this is affecting you so badly. They might be able to get you into counseling where you can learn to trust people--not everyone but some people--again. Counseling might also help you feel good about yourself again. Do your parents know this happened? If you are afraid to tell them that it happened at all, then you need to contact a group like the Boys and Girls Town Hotline, you can talk to them.
2006-09-09 15:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by S. O. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to get some counseling and probably some antidepressants. Talk to your mom, or another trusted adult about this. I wasn't raped, but I know that when I was depressed I felt the same way. Good luck.
2006-09-09 15:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry for what happen. Have you told anyone? Maybe some conseling would help. Maybe you have a best friend or call the girls hotline to talk with someone. Sometimes its easier to talk to someone you know won't judge you or be biased.
2006-09-09 15:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lyoness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes alot of people in the world feel lonely and feel betrayed. You are not alone in this field. I've lost someone close to me and have kept people even friends at a distance so that I can't get hurt again. I have lost friendships this way but it is how I am. I try to be open but not to the point where I feel I will get hurt. So yes I am selfish of my feelings cause I am scared. So I know what it feels like to be lonely and it doesn't feel good either. So learn to see people as people and not as someone who may hurt you in the long run. Take your time to feel them out. You will eventually learn to open up again. Good luck!!
2006-09-09 15:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You must get some professional help as soon as possible. How old are you? and are you living with you Step dad? Tell your mom about it. or even the police. Don't let him get away with this please! I am so sorry...I wish i could help you.
2006-09-09 15:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please tell your mom about the rape you need therapy and he needs jail time. i know what your feeling i have been there too. its ok to cry,and be sad. please cry as much as you can it does help some. it doesget better but never like it was before. feel free to im me or email the links are under my name. its going to be ok please talk to your mom. and see a doctor
2006-09-09 15:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to me at eltiburon1988@yahoo.com
2006-09-10 03:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋