its his birthday and and i just want to go for a nice meal with him then down town have a drink with his mates..but he want to take the train go somewhere else,i got to work tomorow morning but he keep trying asking me to go,then we agreed to have ameal and a drink down town,i got ready,put my make up on and stuffs then he ask me again what i want to do tonight???? i just so upset and though he put his mates before me(cause theirs idea,not his at the ifrst place-go out somwhere on the train). then i decide he could do what he want to its his birthday,im stay home instead,dont feel like out anyway after hard work today,but i did want to please him,then he disapointed me. so i said if he went out with his friends and im stay home i will hate him,so he said what could make me not hate him,i said,stay home with me( of course imonly teasing to see if he care to make me happy,im not that bad) so now he left...and im home alone, should i chuck the cake i bought him out of the window ?
2006-09-09 08:20:17 · 18 answers · asked by Phuong J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep absolutely! Leave it right on top of the garbadge so he sees it. Don't you just hate the way they bullsh*t around you to get what they want but can never, ever just tell the truth and say hey I want to go out with the boys tonight. Mine just did this crap to me the other night too...he goes to watch a football game (and doesn't even like football) and tells whatever lies suit him and get him out the door, then once they are out they couldn't care less. They figure they'll show up when they feel like it and say they are 'sorry' and that takes care of it. I hate it!!! LOL they claim to be the stronger sex but can tell the truth to a womans face to save their pathetic lives!! Why would he want to be with someone else on his birthday? Don't forget this little stunt when your birthday rolls around.
2006-09-09 08:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok. First off, keep in mind that guys need their time with their friends just as we women do. Take the time alone and make the most of it. This was a hard lesson I had to learn as well in the beginnning of my relationship with my fiance. I don't blame you for being upset but at the same time, I guess he just figured "Well I asked if she wanted to go". He probably has no idea that you're even upset with him and will probably come home and try to be all lovey dovey. I'm sure he was just excited about spending a night out with the boys and figured since you told him to decide what he wanted to do, then you probably didn't really care since you gave him the choice of either staying in with you or going out with them. Men sometimes are clueless about why a woman feels the way she does. Half the time I get upset with my fiance, he hasn't the slightest idea why even though I just figure that he should. I wouldn't lock him out of the house. I would sack out, go to bed and let tomorrow be another day. Things usually tend to look a lot better in the morning. Good luck.
2006-09-09 08:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by shortydolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set the cake outside the door. Hopefully its raining. Lock the doors turn out the lights. Let him stew until tomorrow having made your point. On the flip side it was his birthday and he should have the liberty to do what he wants. The end result is that he will NEVER get a surprise party from you.
2006-09-09 08:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ramiel should be going home and I think she will be. Dolly Parton songs are really difficult because they are so identified with her and her style. It was especially hard for the guys, yet Michael Johns and David Cook were amazing! Brooke also did a good cover of Jolene and even Kristie Lee did well -- but country music is her style.
2016-03-27 04:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a couple days to cool off. A healthy relationship is one where both partners can flourish. I would have gone out myself with MY friends and let him have a night to be with the guys. After all, it was HIS birthday. Even people who are in love need a life away from each other.
You need to have a good honest talk with each other and set rules that you both can stick to to keep your relationship healthy.
2006-09-09 08:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a 'men behaving badly' classic move and put some sloppy dinner in his shoes for wearing the next day,lol then give him a kiss and have birthday din dins together the next night and by then you will have had a good row bout him going out with the mates and you putting dinner in his shoes and you'll be on for a mega making up session,lol...enjoy
2006-09-10 02:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes chuck it at his head going 4 meal then out with mates sounded ok to me to let you get dolled up then f off is not nice dont be too harsh he is only a man after all but teach him a lesson why not arrange night with him out then bogg off with your mates yes tit 4 tat but he may know how it feels then or may go other way he might do it back then its a big circle good luck anyway!!
2006-09-09 09:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well. this is a man thing. he prob doesnt realise how hurt you r. it is his birthday you should of went out with him. its not as if he didnt ask you. dont throw his cake out of the window. he can have it tom..
just be sure that hes coming home to be with you. if he doesnt *** home to then kill him lol. hope you feel better tom sweet dreams xxxxxx
2006-09-09 10:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have 2 glasses of wine and sleep it off. Tomorrow is another day.
2006-09-09 08:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its what kids do when they grow up find friends of there own and get a life of there own, you should be proud of him and respect his wishes. plenty of time to celebrate HIS birthday with him, its not worth falling out over let him grow up
2006-09-09 08:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋