She wants me to go out and sit in a smokey pub all the time that I already work in, and I just dont want to. Then she was in a mood and she gets in a mood with me because I said we could probably go shopping next week and she has got it into her head that I said definitely even though I didnt. Then she bites my head off when I say no to her. She doesnt like it either because I am moving house in 6-8 weeks as my house has just sold after eighteen months on the market. They are moving to a big town but she doesnt think about me being on my own when she moves away. Their house has been on the market for 3-4 months and they have only had one viewing. She is really getting me down and I dont know what to do. We are both 15. Please help. XXX
2006-09-09 08:15:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont serve at the bar it is a country pub and I am a waitress there in the restaurant area.
2006-09-09 08:23:42 · update #1
first off....tell her to quit with the tantrums...no means no....dont go back to that pub just because she wants you to....smoking is bad enough...but passive smoking does damage in the long term....also working there then going out there is like a busmans holiday, who wants to have a night out in the pace they work, i am a singer in a pub and i only drink there when i work, but i dont go there for a night out....if she gets her nickers in a twizzy because you wont bow down to her demands then tell her to find a new friend, when you move you will meet new friends anyway, and she will too when she moves, she sounds like a right little bratt, tell her to get over herself or you'll dump her, your only 15, she wont be the only best friend you'll meet, find someone nice who does not fire off every time she cant have her own way.....cheer up sweetie,
2006-09-09 09:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ the way you were describing your problems I thought you were 35. You're only 15 years old and you work in a smokey pub? Where do you live in Australia or in the UK? You will find friendship in the future so don't worry about this one going south.
2006-09-09 08:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ur too young to be working in a smokey pub, and theres no law in the country will allow u to do that at 15 yrs old because of the alcohol. and ur friend is being a fat cow yes so just tell her to call u when she grows up
2006-09-09 08:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a spouse and that i know how i'm. i'm fantastically yet in no way infantile(i'll't I have 2 little ones) in no way selfish- I do each thing and something for my husband. I even went to the strip club with him and presented to enable him have a dance(it truly is very few stylish- i know no longer something is taking position) in no way spiteful or controlling. i enable my husband do although he needs see you later as we agree on it. we've a staggering relationship. I actually were married basically about 2 years. i'm sorry that you're stuck with someone like that. i wish you discover someone that loves you. sturdy success
2016-11-25 22:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 and go drinking in a pub?
You can't work in a pub at 15 either...
2006-09-09 08:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 15, what are you doing on your own working in a pub?
2006-09-09 08:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Trinity♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shouldent be workin in a pub anyway if your only 15. its none of my buisness but your friend is a selfish cow. She only thinks about herself she doesnt give a dam about wot u think. my advice would be find a new friend she thinks everything needs to be about her.
2006-09-09 08:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont mean to be rude but read your question again,you say your friend is spiteful? you are saying no to her all the time and boasting about how quick you sold your house stop look at how you are treating her then ask yourself the same question,if you dont sort this out soon there wont be a friendship!
2006-09-09 10:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by kylus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You own a home?
Sit in smokey pubs?
Where you work?
Old head on young shoulders I think.
Advise?
Dump your mate.
The biatch.
2006-09-09 08:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She ain't worth a light so get rid, but your question is so full of contradictions. You work in a smoky pub and your fifteen. That is totally illegal.
2006-09-09 08:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋