Every year we make fun of her and tease this girl at our lunch table at school. She is really nice though, but she's just so ANNOYING. She copies things we do in hopes that she thinks that we'll accept her for that. Every year that I make fun of her, I always regret it afterwards. This year I'm trying my hardest not to make fun of her, but it's hard. We have school bus trips, and at the beginning of the year I told her that I'd sit with her on all the bus trips. But now, this new girl came to our school and she's really fun to be around and talk to. She's really nice also. I told her that I wanted to sit with her on all the bus trips also. I want to sit with the new girl, not the annoying one. How do I tell the annoying girl that I don't want to sit with her on the bus by being nice about it?
2006-09-09 08:00:19 · 17 answers · asked by Britney♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Example of the copying thing: Me and my other friend are in band (the annoying girl is also) and we are trying out for color guard (flags) well, now she's trying out too so that way she could be on the team with us. Nobody likes her, but she thinks everyone likes her. It gets very annoying and I don't know how to tell her to not try out for color guard because my friend and I feel that color guard is our thing, and we feel that she's trying to take that away from us and try to be like us again, because she is doing that.
2006-09-09 08:04:02 · update #1
Well, we have tried leaving her before, but she attaches to us and follows us everywhere. We think she needs to be her own person, and not just a "mini-me" we've tried telling her to do that and be her own person, but she just ignores us and keeps on doing everything we do and acting like we do, dress like we do, etc.
2006-09-09 08:06:37 · update #2
wow, speaking of annoying. You think your some fantastic person because you make fun of and tease someone who in your own words is "really nice". Good greif! Go sit with your new friend - - give the other girl a chance to find a friend who won't stab her in the back all the time.
2006-09-09 08:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This situation sounds familiar. There is this guy who has no friends and is really annoying; he sits at our table as well. What do I do about it? I let him sit there because he just needs friends in high school. I also like to try to be nice to everyone. Think about it like this: if the person gets famous in the future,she'll remember you as her friend and not someone who made fun of her in school.
2006-09-09 15:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by starrchick101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she wouldn't try so hard every time she is near if you and your other friend were say just a little more accepting of her and is being misunderstood as annoying, as for your dilemma
you might wanna sit in a pack on the bus and if and let her and the newbie sit together, and for coping you, you should be thrilled about it that someone wants so hard to be like you and be with you
2006-09-09 15:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her place, what would you want done if you were this girl? You do not have to like her but you are required to love her. (It's in the Bible, remember?) If you love her then you'll respect her by being careful not to intentionally hurt her feelings. Sometimes actions do speak louder than words. If you are not afraid to speak out and let her know you've decided another course of friendship with someone else, you should not be feeling comfortable with who you are as a person.
When you do what's right, you can like and love yourself.
2006-09-09 15:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jhazzi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a girl that we made fun of in High School, her nick name was Jaws because one night coming from a dance she was in the back of the bus giving a guy a BJ and got caught doing it.
Two years later, she and I became good friends!!!
2006-09-09 15:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say that you want to make the new girl feel welcome and ask the annoying girl to sit behind you so that you can both turn around and talk to her when you feel like it. if the annoying girl is sittin near you, she wont feel so left out! make sure that she doesnt sit in front of you cos she will be constanly turning around and you wont be able to get away! argh!
2006-09-09 15:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by x_shai_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone else get to the table early and make sure there are no chairs and no space for her to sit...
2006-09-09 15:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get to know her better, maybe if you accept her, she won't be so annoying and trying so hard to be friends with you. who knows? maybe inside she's a really fun person.
2006-09-09 17:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice maybe she is just lonely and needs some real friends so what if she dont really fit in if she is nice what is wrong with being nice to her
2006-09-09 15:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that maybe the reason this girl is "annoying" is that she just needs attention??? Maybe her home life isnt as good as yours. Do you REALLY know her??????
2006-09-09 15:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋