I work with this guy. he smiles to you and is all friendly. he kisses the boss a77 big time. He would talk sh21 about you when you are not around. why is that? and how would you deal with him?
2006-09-09 07:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by sheflakbir 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I worked with someone like that. I bided my time, and when I was in the middle of the most hectic, crisis-filled, mission critical crunch and this cretin started up criticising the way I was working - the next time I saw my boss I let slip that my job was hard enough without having my attention grabbed by some slacker armchair-quarterbacking my every move.
Timing is everything...and make your complaints job-related, not personal.
2006-09-09 08:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by oohhbother 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are always going to be "backstabbers" in life. You may be one of the most hard-working and nicest people on the Earth, and someone will always be going behind your back for some reason. Most people that act like this will get themselves caught like a mouse in a trap, as they are covering up for the fact that they are unwilling or unable to do their jobs; and figure the kissing..... will cover up their low job performance. You learn to ignore it, do your job to the best of your ability and just soar with the eagles; even if you work with a turkey! People who are very insecure with themselves act this way, just pretend you don't even know that it is going on; it is less stressful this way. If he is making comments that could hurt your standing at the job, go to your boss or the HR department.Good luck and have a good day.
2006-09-09 15:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't associate with brown-nosers and with people who are two-faced. I would avoid this person as much as possible, and refuse to socialize with him. Make it obvious that you are interested in having discussions with everyone else except for him. Walk right pass him and treat him as if he is of no importance to you. If he speaks, speak back and continue what you were doing. Don't give him the benefit of information because he will take whatever enegery you give him and use it against you. Act as if he is Invisible!
2006-09-09 15:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is one of those in just about every work place. I would imagine that he doesn't have any (true) friends and that he is a very unhappy person, even if he doesn't show it. I would feel sorry for him, and pray for him to get some help. Seriously pray for him, because that is what he needs
2006-09-09 15:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He talks crap about other people to make himself look good to the boss. To make himself standout from the crowd.
Don't worry, people like that tend to get theirs in the end.
2006-09-09 15:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by my_lil_buttercups 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world. Smile back and don't give him any material to use againist you. He will get his in the end.
Or the back corner of a dark parking lot
2006-09-09 14:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
the way to deal with people like that , DONT.. just walk away
2006-09-09 14:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kill him with kindnes and do everything in your power to show him up by doing your work and getting credit for it.
2006-09-09 14:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by echickaboo99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
avoid him, and don't tell him anything you wouldn't want on the front page of the newspaper.
2006-09-09 15:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋