2006-09-09 07:54:17 · 18 answers · asked by boboshaboo 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have to say, that things go wrong all of the time! Like doing the simplest of things.I get really angry with myself, I try so hard to pour sugar into the sugar bowl without spilling any....its all over the place lol I think I am just a clumsy old Git, but a happy one, (most of the time) LOL
2006-09-09 09:41:52 · update #1
First law of Murphy: "If anything can go wrong it will" .
2006-09-09 07:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Courage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think the "universe" is setting you up, but it is really you.
Yoiu probbaly grew up in an abusive home, and so you think you are worthless. But your not. Anyhow your subconscious is constantly battling you.
In your heart you feel like you are smart and special, so you think somethings *should* be easy... so you set papers down where ever.
Then your subconsious fights against you and trips you up, by going "you little jerk, that doesn't belong there, your gonna spill something on it!" So you get all nervous and "BAM!" you knock a drink over.
Sad thing is, if the subcounsious hadn't "brought it up" your papers would have been fine.
YOU are your own worst enemy here. What you need to do, is accept yourself. Learn that you have intrensic worth. Then your "luck" will change. I gaar-unnnn-teee.
Pick up a book called "mind over mood" at Barns n' Nobel for about $20. It is a cognative therapy self help workbook, it can help change the way you think when you go through the exercises. Really strong changes, help you realize you are not the problem.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 15:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal Violet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the strength of what you believe can cause it to happen and subconsciously you will end up doing things that sabotage yourself...
When life is hard and things aren't going our way it's really easy to get into this "nothing will ever go right for me" mentality. The way to get past this is to believe "I deserve happiness and I deserve for things to go my way and I am powerful enough to make it happen." Then when things go wrong you look at them in the right perspective - you say, "Well, that didn't go right but I'm not going to let that stop me." You keep on going, keep on trying and before you know it things are getting better (mostly because your perspective is better) and you can put life's "defeats" in their proper place, which is that of a learning experience. Life's defeats and obstacles and wrong turns are merely lessons that help us find the right path on our journeys.
2006-09-09 14:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you do not think about the consequence of your actions and fail to react quickly to an outcome.
Who can say what is wrong, perhaps because you get a negative result, it may not mean it is wrong. Each negative can only bring you closer to the positive.
Basically put, you need to look before you can leap.
2006-09-09 15:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by true_strike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about focusing your mental energy towards positive awareness not negative....your mind is a very powerful force..it can create endless possibilities or a bottomless pit of despair if u think negatively..Your question is already leading you into a cycle of let down...a series of downward spirals of blah.....U can change your outcome by changing your outlook.....just take a jab at it and stay with it!!!
2006-09-09 15:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by fxbeto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a "cup half empty" person. Have a positive attitude and things won't go wrong as often. And when they do, you will be able to find the "good" in the situation and learn from it.
2006-09-09 15:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you bellieve in negativity and if you think hard enough that something will happen 98% of the time it does. you need to think more positivly and instead of thinkiong it will go wrong if it can try thinking this is defaintly going to be good
2006-09-09 16:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need 2b more positive, negative vibes only promotes negative situations, you sound like you take life way too seriously, lighten up!!!
Some one mentioned on Murphy's Law-tell me more?
2006-09-11 04:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Luvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have lost faith and believe it will go wrong no matter
what try haveing sex and see if you get that correct lol
2006-09-09 16:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S ALL A STATE OF MIND- NOBODY IS LUCKY OR HAS BAD LUCK-- IT'S ALL HOW YOU APPROACH LIFE - IF YOU PLAY THE LOTTERY AND EXPECT TO WIN- THEN YOUR GOING TO THINK YOU HAVE BAD LUCK- AND VISA -VERA YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO EXPECT THE WOST CASE AND HOPE FOR THE BEST CASE SO YOU DON'T BECOME PESSIMISTIC
2006-09-09 15:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by j dizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attitude...we all have days, mine being months, like that...Take a deep breath and dive into your task.
At least you are attempting and in the end you will be rewarded!
2006-09-09 15:02:36 · answer #11 · answered by vikingsonsltw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋