Do you have to be thinking of something in order to reach an orgasm or does it just happen? I have to think of the same thing every time. I hate it!
2006-09-09 07:44:29 · 20 answers · asked by hotmama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When masturbating yes I am thinking about something. During sex it depends. I say practice practice practice. If I'm having exciting sex no problem. But if its the normal kids have finally gone to bed we final have a moment, I'm thinking of something. Once I had sex in the front seat of a car sitting backwards on my Ex husband---so risky in many ways but really exiting and my fastest (not best) climax ever. So maybe do some of what you are thinking about.
2006-09-10 20:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be as simple as where you are in life right now that prevents you from relaxing enough to achieve orgasm any other way. Stress is a big part of how our body acts, or doesn't act. Just the fact that you are worrying about it can put more stress on the situation. Try not to worry about orgasming and just enjoy. If you can get away from the stressers in your life try that as well. You may find that this will help immensely
2006-09-09 14:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For women it's really a mentally stimulating issue. Try 4 play and dirty talk. if that doesn't work try laying on your stomach and letting the guy go from behind
2006-09-09 14:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Holly H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some new fantasies, maybe check out some porn or reading erotic stories.
I get there all sorts of ways. Sometimes the mental part of it works, sometimes what is actually happening then and there. Sometimes both.
2006-09-09 14:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your man what you like and don't like. It could be the way you are doing it, your position etc. I find it easier to reach "O" if I am on top and in more control.
2006-09-09 14:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just think of my b/f or my ex b/f now.. but i still think about him and if that doesn't work then i think of other things that are a big turn on to me. Everyone is different and likes different things!
2006-09-09 14:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I have to think about the same thing too
2006-09-09 14:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by ImSpoilednLoveit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Regular intercourse doesn't do much for me. Clitoral stimulation at the same time almost always gets me there all the time!
2006-09-09 14:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Confused_Rep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...whatever works. If you have to think of the same thing everytime, think of it!
2006-09-09 14:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious!!! well, sometimes it can be a mental thing or a physical thing. How you get it is you peroggative.
2006-09-09 14:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by hunnybee032001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋