last year, i had this guy friend, and i liked him alot, but my friend put obcessive love notes in his locker and signed them from me, we havent talked since one month before school let out for the summer, and it has been two weeks back in school, and i said hi to him and he shot me an evil glare like i am the devil or something, please help me, all i want is my friend back.
2006-09-09 06:53:32 · 10 answers · asked by newischk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have no way of comunicating with him, my friend moved with her dad, and he runs away when i try to talk to him, i think i am just going to let it go, if he dont want me as a friend, an enemie is better than nothing, so if he hates me, i just have to put up eith it, he is so stubborn, and now he's just like everyone else who hates me, he's never going to be my friend again. so, thanks everyone, but there is no hope left for us, besides, he is smaller than me anyway, people probably made fun of us for even being seen, passing eachother in the hallway, he deserves a better looking friend than me.
2006-09-09 07:04:21 · update #1
All I can say is grow some balls, sister. Men don't control your life and neither do your hormones. If I were you, I'd walk up to him and say the following,"What's wrong with you?"
And he'd say,"Um, what do you mean"
"I heard you got some notes in your locker that were signed by me. Did you seriously think I sent them to you? Seriously (insert name), I thought you knew me better than that. You're a real douche bag, you know."
And he'll say,"Blah blah blah, I'm sorry."
And you'll say, "Alright then, let's be friends again."
It's that simple. All you have to do is confront him with the truth because it's your strongest most powerful weapon.
Also, the girl who left those notes in his locker is a real cow. Forgive her but don't let her too close to you until she earns your trust again. She's immature and may hurt you again.
Side note: Love hurts but like Shakespear said, it's better to have loved than not to have loved at all.
2006-09-09 07:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alex B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool & look at it like this, If there ever is a chance to redeem sanity with this guy then casualy take it. Aploygise for the crazy notes admit the childness in it that just got out of hand, tell the guy your embarassed by it all and that you (if possible) want to clear the air between you two. THen leave him alone. Don't embarass yourself anymore. HE's not that cute,(tell Yourself) & Don't trip on the stupid **** that you really didn't do anyways. The guy thinks your a nut!! It's kinda funny, let it be funny, laugh at yourself and just don't act that way again, ever!!!! GOOD luck, Don't Take what he thinks so serious and don't pine over Mr. Hottie.
2006-09-09 14:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by you_wahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell him that your friend put the notes in his locker? If he won't listen, put another note in his locker telling him what happened, and how much you miss your friendship with him. Better yet see if your "friend" will step up to the plate and tell him the facts. If not, it was no kind of friendship anyway. You might try telling him to compare the signatures as well.
Good Luck to you. Friends are a gift for God. Good ones anyway!
2006-09-09 14:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by wixom62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to leave him be for a while. If you try to talk to him or write him another letter, he will think that you're still obsessing over him. Just continue school as normal. Hang out with your old friends and even make a few new ones. If the opportunity comes up where you are able to converse with him one on one, then explain what happened...but for now I think it will backfire on you if you try to force the issue with him.
2006-09-09 14:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him out for a coffee. Tell him exactly what happened - that you were set-up by another person (you don't need to say who, but your mean/jealous GF isn't your friend anymore.)
Tell him you would like to continue to be friends if he is willing to be your friend. That is the best you can do.
If he chooses not to believe you, well then, he is really not worth losing sleep over. He believes what he wants to believe and you can't change that. Not the kind of person you want as a friend.
2006-09-09 14:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Tom-SJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to have your friend tell him that it was her that put the notes in his locker not you. If that don't work try calling him and explaining it to him or email him and explain it that way tell him that you only like him as a friend not a boy friend tell him that you just want your friendship back and that's all.
Good Luck
2006-09-09 13:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him the truth and say that u didnt put those notes in his locker tell ur other friend to admitt to him that he or she did it then just go with the flow if u care about him this much then just do it i had one time this grl keep putting notes in this guys locker and she said they were from me and i showed him my hand writing and it was different than the other and i new it was my friend and she go mad and said that we rnt friends any more cause i cant take a joke well we r friend again
2006-09-09 14:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him you didn't write the notes and he doesn't believe you, then there is little you can do about it. Move on there are plenty of guys that will find you interesting and hot. Don't fall in love so easily.
2006-09-09 14:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why don't you talk to him and explain things to him. If he's really your friend, he'll understand.
2006-09-09 13:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by socalicd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please ignore him, he's not worth it.
He could hurt you even more this time.
Forgive your friend and make-up, she could return the favour another day.
Good luck!
2006-09-09 14:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋