WHY wont my man kiss me on the lips I am pregnant with our second child my other is 16 months but HE JUST WONT kiss me and when I COMPLAIN he KISSES THE SIDE OF my MOUTH as he LOOKS AWAY!!! Also today after being really mean to me last night he walks up and kisses my forehead as he is LEAVING ?? Whats with him I LOVE KISSING and he has just seemed to veer off from it in the start of our relationship we kissed all the time but now I get this we have been together for over 3 years I dont know what to do anymore please REAL answers dont be rude !
2006-09-09 06:49:36 · 23 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
AND PLEASE PEOPLE I KNOW IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH TEETH OR BAD BREATH !!! LOL
2006-09-09 12:42:26 · update #1
Some men freak out about viewing their wives as a sexual being when they are pregnant. Has to do with mother issues. Usually they're okay after the baby is born, but sometimes it is permanent once the wife is a mother. If it continues after the birth, talk to him about counseling.
2006-09-09 06:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to tell. Did he kiss you on the lips before you had kids? If so, maybe he has some intimacy issues because now...you're not just his partner, you're a mother. Some guys get weird about kissing a mother...as if girlfriends/wives are in one category, and mother's are in another. They think you just don't kiss a 'mother' that way. I'm just guessing of course, but you really should put the baby to bed, sit him down and ask him why he avoids that. Make sure he understands that you don't want a one word answer....but you want a discussion on it so you can understand what he's feeling, and why.
2006-09-09 06:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your breath bad?, teeth bad? Pregnancy tends to make teeth decay. If so, he might just not want to hurt your feelings by telling you. You might want to see a dentist.
OR If he has stopped having sexual relations with you also, it might be the thing where some men can't feel like they can have sex with a pregnant woman. If so he may be OK after you have the baby.
If neither of the above he is either 1. cheating or 2. has mental issues that need counceling help.
Best of luck to you and to your new baby too.
2006-09-09 07:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Patty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, it does sound as if he is struggling at the moment. Is it possible he is feeling that he will be pushed out of your life by the baby? Sometimes you have to treat men like loddlers when there is a new baby coming. Maybe, just temporarily he really isnt attracted to you, and he's embarrassed by that. I doubt he's leaving you, I think he is a bit muddled by the current situation and doesnt know how to handle it. Try to be patient with him
2006-09-09 06:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why he does not like kissing you? It could be that he has issues with your breath or teeth. It could also be that he is currently not seeing you as his wife but as the mother of his child(ren). Sometimes men have difficulty with intimacy during pregnancies. Could also be that he is having an affair and due to guilt, feels he is not worthy of your affection.
BUT, before jumping to all kinds of conclusion, ask him straight out. Don't like his answer, then follow up on some of the above reasons...
2006-09-09 06:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Funny Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His breath stinks.
I'm not being rude here. Maybe he just thinks that and dosen't want you to be offended by his breath.
Why don't you ask him this? I really don't see how any of us could possibly know what his reasons are for not wanting to kiss you on the lips. Sorry for your dilemma
2006-09-09 06:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife has the same problem with me. I honestly just don't like kissing. I don't know why, it just annoyes the hell out of me. A good embrace is far more enjoyable.
2006-09-10 08:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by blamurfen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a kiss phobia type thing. Or maybe he's a germaphobe and is afraid of catching your germs. The human mouth holds the MOST germs and bacteria than anything else....
2006-09-09 06:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
number 1 ask him if he is cheating!
number 2 if number 1 isn't the problem --- i know many men that are vain and dont like having women on their arm that are overweight (or pregnant) -- ask him if he feels that you are an embarassment to him because you are pregnant again. if that is the case then he should go back to normal after the baby comes.
believe it or not many many men are vain and instead of hurting your feelings -- they try to hide that fact, albeit very poorly.
good luck
2006-09-09 06:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Forever Looking 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even though this is going to hurt, he is seeing someone else. I would bet the farm on it. Ask him, follow him, find out what his real problem is your his girl the mother of his children if you can't kiss her then who can you kiss? Don't be nieve or his, you shouldn't be treated like this. Goodluck
2006-09-09 06:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋