I have a friend that has a 9 month old daughter. She is 28 and her bf is only 18, there relationship has been up and down for the last two years. She's blind and he has been in jail, has cheated on her 4 times, niether of them are employed,and they both still live with their parents. They want to get married in 2008, should she do it?
2006-09-09 06:38:04 · 18 answers · asked by nola232 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for all of you that answered, i don't speak to my friend anymore, but she always calls me with her relationship drama. what to do?
2006-09-09 06:52:07 · update #1
Two words, dear: BUTT OUT. Your friend is 28 and if she cannot run her own life then it is not up to you to run it. Mind your own business and concentrate on YOUR life, not hers. She sounds like a lost cause anyway.
2006-09-09 06:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heck No! She must have some type of brain dis-function to be dating an 18 year old. Everyone knows that boys mature slower than girls. She should be dating someone her age or older.
Just reading the question makes me feel nauseous. But hey, it's her life she can screw it up even worse if she wants to. Guess we'll all see her on Jerry Springer in a couple of years. lol
2006-09-09 13:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what do you think? A child is in the picture, (two if you count the boyfriend) neither is employed, and apparently can not function on their own. The boyfriend apparently can not even function within the boundaries of his parents home, seeing that he is incarcerated. So the answer to your questions?
NO !!!!!! Surprised?
2006-09-09 13:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by wixom62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an unhealthy relationship. If her mind is made up though- she won't thank you for interfering as you are supposed to be her friend. As her friend she will expect your support. Mentioning your concern would be fine but then drop it if she doesn't take your advice. Sometimes we have to learn by doing.
2006-09-09 13:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has cheated on her 4 times and he is unemployed then they don't need to be getting married. Beside's that he is only 18 and he has alot of growing up to do.She needs to realize that.
2006-09-09 13:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
28 and dating a 18 yrs old guy?!!!!what's that..
i don think it's a relationship at all..he's stii a teenager..
not that mature one to be a real man..
is she crazy to do that..
or they just have a gr8 sex life..?
2006-09-09 13:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by the 6th knight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly doesn't sound like a marriage made in heaven. But they are both consenting adults so let them make their own mistakes and hopefully both will learn from it.
2006-09-09 13:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you tell her not to get married you look like a bad friend so just let her do what ever she want w/ her life.
2006-09-09 14:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by EVY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not my problem or yours I think you need to butt out of her business as it should be none of yours. My opinion doesnt matter. But I say no way should she marry him.
2006-09-09 13:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a made-up story. If it's true I weep for our future.
2006-09-09 13:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋