Ok so I fell really quickly for this guy, I was physically, mentally , and emotionally attracted to him...he asked me out Staurday and i said yes, we had a great weekend, we spent time together, laughing, holding hands kissing, you all know the deal...Then come Tuesday when we went back to school he started acting strange, like not touching me or anything...then Thursday I talked to him and he told me he wasn't gunna break up with me, then Friday he did...I am so hurt...Like completely shattered and we only went out for 6 DAYS!!!! I don't even know what's wrong with me, but I feel pathetic...lonely, shattered, and pathetic...not to mention I keep like smelling his cologne everywhere...any one wanna tell me what my illness is and how to get rid of it????
2006-09-09 06:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by innocentone_angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie, i have no idea how to console you.
if he's suck a jerk, you are better off without him.
good luck and move on ya.
2006-09-09 06:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no illness girlfriend. Guys at this age are looking for notches in there belts. Get involved in school activities such as sports, music, drama. Get a job of some sort. Wait til the guys grow up. In a few years they learn what relationships are about. I'm not saying that all guys are this way . Don't ever give yourself up for a guy unless you are ready to pay the consequences of a baby.
2006-09-09 13:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by kimj g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>Like completely shattered and we only went out for 6 DAYS!!!! <<
Your illness is youth and impatience. The cure for both is life. Do you realize how pathetic you sound - tore up over something that lasted less than a week? Get a grip on yourself.
2006-09-09 13:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take a shower.
One date and you're going out with him. it's called playing the field. he wanted to play around and you were willing. Did he get any poontang? if he did he'll call you when he gets horny again. He's marked you as an easy touch. He probably has another girlfriend. True love, no doubt about it.
2006-09-09 13:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinkhis feelings for you freaked him out. give him some time and see what happens. If nothing does try to find someone else. DOn't wallow in misery, love comes, love goes, thats just the way it is.
2006-09-09 13:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Illness-infatuation. Cure-willpower and a bit of time. This is one of those life lesions. Don't fall hard and fast for a guy....give it time. And that should be weeks, at least.
2006-09-09 13:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I been there. That attachment that strikes hard and fast. Lucky for you, it goes away fast too. You'll be aight.
2006-09-09 13:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty pathetic
2006-09-09 13:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋